My name is Li Ming, I am 38 years old this year, I work in a foreign company, and my annual salary is more than 300,000 yuan. Two years ago, when I was on a business trip to Shanghai for a meeting, I met Ali, the business manager of a local equipment company. She was very beautiful, we fell in love at first sight and soon began an extramarital affair.
For me, being with Ali has been the happiest I've had in years. Ali is a very attractive woman, with strong work ability and great taste, and with her I have regained my long-lost passion.
A few days ago, I plucked up the courage to say to Ali**: "Ali, the past two years with you have been my happiest time." I want to marry you and live happily ever after. ”
Ali smiled, her eyes a little evasive: "But you're married, it's not realistic." And I'm not sure if I'm okay with being a junior. ”
I know Ali's concerns, but I really love her and don't want to let go. My marriage has long been cold, and my wife and I are like colleagues, and with Ali I find a feeling of love. I decided to divorce my wife and start over with Ali.
So yesterday, I plucked up the courage to say to my wife, "I'm sorry, I want a divorce." Our relationship is not what it used to be, and I think divorce is good for both of us. ”
The wife was so shocked that she exclaimed, "You are crazy!".We have both been married for 10 years, why do you do this to me and the children!”
I said calmly, "I know it's not fair to you, but I've decided. After the divorce, I will take full responsibility and provide you with enough living expenses. ”
Mrs. burst into tears, unable to control her emotions, she choked up and said, "You negative man, I worked for you to earn money and gave birth to two children, did you betray me like this!".”
Calm down?I've been trying for years!But you're a selfish loser, and I'll never forgive you again!The wife roared angrily.
I knew that this decision was very painful for my wife and would affect my children, and I felt guilty for myself. But I really don't want to continue this kind of emotionless marriage anymore, I have the right to pursue true love. I believe that time will ** everything, and she and the child will recover in the end.
My wife was crying hysterically and accusing me, and I couldn't control my emotions. She picked up the vase next to her and threw it at me, and I scrambled to dodge. She threw herself in front of me again, threw my hand in the face, and shouted at me for being a brute. I was speechless, I could only let her vent, and my heart was like a knife.
Unexpectedly, Ali's answer surprised me: "No, don't do that. I don't want to ruin your family. Goodbye. ”
Ali's words caught me off guard. I thought she would be happy, but I didn't expect her to refuse directly. She really cares about my family and doesn't want her to be ruined. I was very moved, and I felt guilty that I had broken my wife's heart.
A mixed expression of sadness, determination, and distress appeared on Ali's face. She stroked her face, and her eyes were full of tears. Then she nudged me away, turned around resolutely, and ran away at a faster pace. I stood still, heartbroken, tears welling up in my eyes.
Mrs. sneered: "Do you think saying sorry will solve the problem?"I trust you so much!I've worked hard to support my family all these years, and you've betrayed me like this. ”
I quickly apologized: "I know what I did wrong, I'm really sorry." Is it okay to give me a chance to make amends?”
The lady was silent and did not answer for a long time.
I knew I was being overly selfish. I obviously have a happy family, but I have to give up so easily, it's really irresponsible. I wanted to pursue happiness, but I hurt the feelings of my wife and children. I was remorseful, but I couldn't take back my decision. I was tormented by the remorse and blow in my heart.
Madam, you and the children are home to me. Other women don't matter, I'm really sorry, I'll never have a next time. I choked up.
My wife asked me with red eyes, "What about the woman?"Do you still love her?”
I immediately replied, "No, you and the children are my home." She was just a mistake and I vowed never to contact her again. ”
I finally realized that it is not only material things that I owe to my wife and children, but also feelings. I had to make it up to her, not just leave her behind. I want to listen carefully to her feelings, understand her pain, and rebuild her trust in me.
I stepped forward and hugged my wife tightly and apologized softly. She wept silently and was speechless for a long time. My heart was heartbroken and I was determined to walk the talk and Xi how to be a good husband and father again. My wife finally hugged me back and whimpered quietly.
Gradually, the wife's pain got slowly. One day, my wife said to me, "I've worked hard for you all these years. I will renew my efforts to maintain this family. ”
I said gratefully, "Madam, you've worked hard all these years. I will renew my efforts to maintain this family. ”
What about the woman?Do you still love her?The wife was still a little worried.
No, you and the children are my home. She was just a mistake and had withdrawn from my life. I said solemnly.
After going through this marital crisis, I finally realized my most important responsibilities and obligations. I can't continue to be selfish, I have to be good to my family wholeheartedly. I will cherish my wife, take care of the children with her, and rebuild trust.
We decided to go on a trip and I did my best to amuse my wife during the trip. I bought her gifts and listened attentively. The lady's smile gradually returned. At night, we hugged our children and looked at the stars, just like turning back into the loving couple of the year.
Through this journey, I have learned deeply about my responsibilities as a husband and father, and I will keep my lessons in mind and do my best to maintain this family and make my wife and children happy.