Dale Carnegie once said, "A man with high emotional intelligence has no enemies, and a man with a high IQ has no friends." Emotional intelligence is comfortable, but it should be. Selfish. If you make someone else comfortable, but feel pain is not called emotional intelligence, it's stupid. In this sentence, Carnegie emphasized the importance of emotional intelligence and intelligence in relationships. Man can be without conspiracy, but he must have authority;One can not be emotional, but must be rational. The city of man is a city of mountains and rivers, and temporarily avoid sharp blades, lest others harm themselves. Emotional management, maintaining a sense of proportion, is to ensure that one's emotional self does not harm others.
In relationships, people who are particular about taking care of your emotions and accommodating your temper are above you. Whether it's emotional intelligence or IQ, it's overwhelming. Having emotional intelligence doesn't mean you're fancy.
But even though I've seen a lot of gray, I can still keep my mind clear because I'm in the rain, so I have to hold an umbrella for someone else.
True maturity is to be able to control one's temper, to be able to tolerate mistakes, to forgive the misfortunes of life, and to appreciate the beauty of the world. In the stormy life, you still open up a pure land for your life.
Truly strong people don't spend too much time and effort pursuing the happiness of others, but strive to improve themselves.
A person's emotional intelligence is not reflected in how many friends he has, but when he is confronted with people and things he hates, he does not care about them, he does not resist them, he treats them indifferently and smiles at them.
If a person's IQ is only used for his own career, it is not for the sake of deception, but for the sake of maintaining reason and sanity in life. In this way, we can recognize the world clearly, and at the same time, we will not be affected by the disturbing world, and always maintain the purity and simplicity of our hearts. It's like a mirror, and although everything is numerous, it still clearly reflects the real scene. The same is true for our life path, we need to maintain clear thinking and calm judgment in a chaotic and complex world in order to move forward more steadily and ambitiously.