Oscar Wilde once said, "If a man is not devoted to love, he will be happy with any woman." In relationships, many men show this trend, and it is difficult to maintain single-mindedness in their love for women, even if there are women around them who truly love them, it is difficult to resist the ** of the outside world.
In real life, those men who are too distracted, pursuing this woman today and that woman tomorrow, have no loyalty to their feelings. Usually, it is women who are let down, and the reason is that men are inattentive and like to "steal food" outside.
Whether in love or marriage, some men's irresponsible behavior towards women is distressing. It's really embarrassing that they do things that hurt them behind women's backs, and they always make excuses for their mistakes.
For women, what they expect is not a man's great achievements, nor much financial support, but a desire for a man's love for them to be consistent. However, can men really do it?It can be difficult for a lot of men to do it.
If a man "steals food" outside, he will inevitably leave three obvious traces, which a woman can see through at a glance and is difficult to hide.
If a guilty man "steals" outside, the most obvious sign is guilt. Out of guilt, they won't let women touch their phones or let women inquire about their whereabouts. In the past, men may have placed personal items such as mobile phones in a prominent position, and were willing to share interesting things about their mobile phones with women. The mobile phone screensaver may even be a woman's**, and the boot password is also willing to tell the woman. However, once they betray their feelings and do something sorry for the woman, they stop letting the woman approach their phone and show unusual guilt. As soon as a woman asks to check her phone, they may be scared. Before, they had no reservations about women, but now they will be wary of women and will not easily let women touch their personal belongings. When they return home, they deliberately keep a certain distance from the woman. If a woman asks them what they did and go, they will appear evasive and get away with vague words. In addition, they hardly leave their phones, which are difficult for women to reach. If there is a ** or message, they will deliberately avoid the woman's sight and run to a place far away from the woman to answer. The men show these traces enough to indicate that they are abnormal, and it is very likely that they are "stealing" outside.
However, even if men do something sorry for women, they will not leave easily. They are usually shrewd and unwilling to ruin the entire family for the sake of an outside woman, let alone tarnish their reputation. They are good at hiding everything, trying to hide their actions from the past, except that they don't take into account the feelings of women. Such a man is very selfish, unfocused on feelings, unfaithful to love, and lacks even basic love and responsibility. Even if they look guilty in front of the woman, they will not stop, as long as the woman does not find out, they will still "steal food" outside. Therefore, women should clearly recognize the true face of men and not be deceived by them. If a man shows guilt in front of a woman, does not allow the woman to touch their personal belongings such as their cell phone, and is reluctant to reveal their whereabouts, then it is likely that they have done something sorry for the woman. Once discovered, decisions should be made early to stop losses in time.
Indifferent to other men, after "stealing" outside, will be particularly indifferent to women when they return home, and they will no longer have the passion they had before. They linger on the wind and snow outside, thinking that women outside are more satisfying than women, and they fall into the quagmire of feelings again and again, unable to extricate themselves. Most men have this trait, once they have "stolen" once, they may repeat it many times, and it is difficult to correct. They regard their feelings as a game and don't take women to heart at all, and even some men have no scruples, even if women know about it, they still go their own way. If so, in most cases, it means that they no longer love women, and there is no place for women in their hearts. In a normal relationship, even if a man and a woman have a conflict, as long as they communicate and resolve it afterwards and dissipate each other's anger, the relationship can often return to the past. However, if a man has a change of heart, they will not communicate with the woman and will choose to treat it with indifference. Such a man may behave warmly in front of others, but be cold and ruthless towards women, fundamentally, because they have found other partners outside, no longer need women, and even want women to leave on their own initiative. Therefore, a woman must carefully observe the man's behavior, and if the man around him is indifferent to a woman for no reason, it means that he no longer loves a woman. For them, women may become annoying to them, but their hearts are worried about the women outside. Such a man is not worthy of a woman to pay for them anymore, it is better to be mentally prepared as soon as possible. Women must not take it lightly, and they must not be too soft-hearted for men who do not love themselves, otherwise they will only be hurt in the end.
If a man often returns late, or does not come home at all, the woman must be alert, which may not only be due to her busy work, but also because she has a new partner outside. In a normal relationship, a man who truly loves you can't go home often, even if he's busy at work, he won't go home every day. And those men who "steal food" outside don't care about women at all, just for their own pleasure and pleasure, how can they ever have the heart to go home?Such men are too vests, and women are hard and busy at home, but they are doing things that are sorry for women outside. Moreover, once a man has a new partner outside, even when he comes home, he will be critical of the woman and make the woman feel uncomfortable. No matter how a woman dresses herself, how delicious a meal she cooks, no matter how much a woman loves him, they will not appreciate it, they will only find fault with the woman's shortcomings, and even think that the woman is inferior to others. No matter how good a woman is, she is worthless in the eyes of a man who no longer loves you. In their opinion, women are not as good as women outside, and they have no sense of love for women. They have lost their sense of responsibility, their loyalty and single-mindedness to love are gone, and there is no place for a woman in their hearts, and they only care about themselves being at ease outside. If you ask them why they don't go home, they will prevaricate for various reasons, and a man who wants to "steal food" will always have countless excuses. Even if they are at home, they do not stay for long, always find excuses to go out, and deliberately avoid women. When they don't go home, they basically won't pick up the woman's **, and they won't reply to the woman's message, and they don't care about the woman's feelings at all. Even if a woman behaves wronged to them, they will not be soft-hearted, because a man who has changed his mind will not do anything for a woman, they will only find women annoying and do not want to see women. Therefore, if a woman finds that the man around her often does not go home, she must be alert, and it is likely that she is "stealing food" outside.
Conclusion: Schiller once said: "True love is single-minded, and the field of love is very narrow, so narrow that it can only accommodate two people to survive."If you fall in love with several people at the same time, it can't be called ** love, it's just an emotional game. This phrase could not be more appropriate for a man who has changed his mind. Those men who are unfaithful to their feelings are all seeing one and loving the other, treating women inappropriately, bullying women, and even taking pleasure in them, which is really despicable. Women need to understand that sometimes the problem is not with themselves, but with men who are too attentive. Such people are inherently unfocused on their feelings and are difficult to change. Therefore, if the men around you show the above three signs, namely guilt, indifference, and often not going home, it means that they have a new object outside, and women must not be nostalgic because it is not worth it. In a relationship, if one party changes his or her mind, it is difficult to move on. For men who don't love you, women should be cautious and take precautions in time to avoid being harmed. Only when two people work together, husband and wife work together to build a happy and loving family, can they really taste happiness. I hope that both men and women in the relationship can abide by the principles and bottom line of love, and if they love, they will love well, and don't let each other down.