Xu Huanshan started a company from scratch, with an annual salary of about 3 million, and lived in a mansion worth tens of millions, he was very satisfied with his talent and achievements.
From a part-time worker of a fireworks designer to a big boss of the company, Xu Huanshan is full of spirit, and thinks that his "dream" and "reality" are impeccable. Why is Mrs. Wang, who is worth 1 billion, facing Xu Huanshan and Gu Jia, say without scruples:"Your family fires guns, huh?”
There are two reasons for this, which are very realistic. 1, Mrs. Wang's family background far surpasses that of Xu Huanshan and Gu Jia, and she has confidenceIn order to let her son enter the top kindergarten, Gu Jia put down her body to please Mrs. Wang, and tried her best to squeeze into the circle of rich wives. Mrs. Wang's position in the circle of rich ladies is very important, and she can let the Gu family enter this circle with a word;Writing a letter of recommendation can open the back door to the top kindergarten that countless parents are eager to see. Although the two families live in the same community, Mrs. Wang lives in a top-floor duplex, while Gu Jia and Xu Huanshan have to rely on loans to move into a mansion, and the financial pressure is very great. In Mrs. Wang's eyes, she was able to talk to Gu Jia and Xu Huanshan, and she was already very face-giving to the other party, so she naturally didn't care too much about the other party's emotions. Xu Huanshan heard Mrs. Wang ridiculing that she was a gunner, and suddenly turned pale, and wanted to refute when she opened her mouth, but fortunately, Gu Jia pressed her husband's hand in time and explained euphemisticallyOur house is set off for fireworks, and my husband is a fireworks designer. 
Gu Jia's words saved face for her husband and relieved the tense atmosphere. Xu Huanshan was very dissatisfied with the deal on the surface, feeling that the people in the rich wife circle did not understand his design concept, and he was a group of people who only had interests in their eyes. This is also the reason why Xu Huanshan rejected Gu Jia and squeezed into the circle of rich wives. At the end of the day,Xu Huanshan is an excellent fireworks designer, but not a qualified company leader. He disdained to take the resources that Gu Jia pulled from the rich wife, and complained that his wife didn't understand his dreams. While enjoying Gu Jia's dedication, he accused Gu Jia of going too far. Xu Huanshan, who is "pretentious", believes that he is an excellent designer who has won various awards and deserves to be respected and respected by others. However, in the eyes of Mrs. Wang, who is worth 1 billion, he is an ordinary man with ordinary economic ability who needs to rely on his wife to take care of his connections in order to let his child enter a top kindergarten. 2, Mrs. Wang is dominant, and Gu Jia and Xu Huanshan have a request for herMrs. Wang's grasp of human feelings and sophistication is very accurate, she seems to be uneducated on the surface, and even buys fake paintings to fill the façade, but in fact she lives transparently and can distinguish between priorities and priorities. Mrs. Wang knew clearly in her heart that Gu Jia was low-pitched and flattered her, all in order to achieve her own goals. 
In this relationship,Mrs. Wang is absolutely dominant, because she has what Gu Jia wants. Doesn't Mrs. Wang know that it is an offense to compare the fireworks company to a "cannon setter"?Mrs. Wang knows it, but the status of the two sides is very different, and Gu Jia and Xu Huanshan have asked for themselves, so she will not put each other on an equal footing and deliberately say beautiful things to compliment. This is also a very cruel truth in interpersonal communication, if you have no value, no matter how powerful the circle is, others will not get along with you equally. Mrs. Wang seems to have no emotional intelligence when she speaks, but in fact, she sees through the nature of socializing, and would rather talk quickly to make herself happy than please someone who does not help her. Gu Jia can see through and has high emotional intelligence, so she can get along well with Mrs. Wang. 
Xu Huanshan was too naïve, so he would not understand Gu Jia's hard work for this family, and even complained that Gu Jia pushed him too hard, which caused him to be attracted to other members of the opposite sex. In marriage, the thinking patterns of two people are too different, and there is a lack of communication between each other, and in the long run, the contradictions will accumulate deeper and deeper. Marriage is not something that can be happy and complete alone. Even Gu Jia, the "all-round wife", can go up to the hall and the kitchen, but she can't carry the happiness of marriage alone.