In a relationship, both parties have invested time and energy, and even if it is a breakup, it is difficult to forget it all right away.
After the breakup, the other party does not delete or block you, mostly these thoughts:I want to see how you're doing, I hope you're doing well, but I don't want you to be doing too well. 
1. After the breakup, there are memories in my heartIn the movie "The Predecessor Three", Meng Yun and Lin Jia broke up in a fit of anger, but they still silently pay attention to each other's life dynamics. When Meng Yun saw his ex-girlfriend going out on a trip to take a photo, he would observe it meticulously and see if there was any opposite sex around the other party through the sunglasses worn by the other party. In real life, after some people break up, they still keep their ex's *** because they still have memories in their hearts, and they have the intention of being able to get back together. Love is very delicate, and couples in love may break up in anger for a trivial matter, or they may reconcile because of an apology. If we want a long-lasting relationship, then we must be cautious and do not easily say that the breakup will not cause irreparable damage. 
2. Don't take the initiative to delete it, and want to get it backLove can only be achieved by the actions of two people. To break up, it is enough for one person to say that he is leaving. Some people are reluctant to delete their ex's WeChat after a breakup because they have not come out of this relationship. They will observe the dynamics of their ex's life, understand their recent preferences, and find ways to salvage the relationship. I once read a data analysis: after a breakup, more than 80% of people want to get back together with their ex. It is not easy for us to meet the person we love, when the relationship breaks down, whether we can get back together with the other party, the key is whether we can resolve the conflicts and contradictions between the two people, and be willing to make changes for each other. In the TV series "Thirty Only", Zhong Xiaoqin and Chen Yu met through a blind date, from love to marriage, the husband and wife for many years can be due to different life Xi and lack of communication between the two, resulting in deeper and deeper conflicts, ending in divorce. After the two experienced the divorce turmoil, they realized the importance of each other, understood their shortcomings in marriage, and finally got back together. There is a weakness in human nature, and people always know to cherish it when they lose. Love is not a game, and marriage is not a contract. We take our feelings seriously, treat our partners properly, and make our feelings deeper in exchanges and communication, so that we can work together to grow old. 
3. I will compare in my heart, afraid that you will live better than himI once heard a saying: "When a person has a bad life, he will recall the old times." "From a psychological point of view, if a person is happy in the present, he will not be haunted by the hurt he has suffered in the past, because their hearts will be filled with love and happiness. In a relationship, after two people break up, if one party is always unhappy and has suffered repeated setbacks in the new relationship, it is inevitable to think of the ex. After a breakup, some people hope that their ex will do well, because he realizes that the end of the relationship between the two is his own problem. After some people break up, they will unconsciously compare themselves with their ex, out of jealousy and face, they don't want their ex to live better than themselves. In fact, no matter what reason two people separate, if they already have their own lives, they don't have to pay attention to each other, so as not to let themselves fall deeper and deeper. Nobel Prize winner Mo Yan wrote in "Fatigue of Life and Death":"The world is like turning a book, turning the past is the past, and people should look forward, not backward. ”
Love is only a part of life, we will encounter many ups and downs and tribulations in life, and we will also reap a lot of happiness and beauty. I hope you cherish every relationship, no matter whether the ending is happy or not, the process is a valuable experience, so that you can transform and become more mature. List of high-quality authors