After my son got married, I gave 6,000 yuan, and after a birthday, I woke up and the 6 yuan was gone
raised children to prevent old age, but became a child slave. My name is Zhou Xiaofeng, I am 58 years old and have been retired for 8 years. When I first retired, my pension was only 1,000 yuan, and now it has risen to 3,000 yuan, but it is obviously not enough to meet my living needs.
My son, Li Xiaoguang, has lived in a relatively privileged environment since he was a child, and has been doted on by his parents-in-law. The family's attitude towards their children was so biased that my daughter became almost transparent in the family.
The daughter can only wear her cousin's old clothes since she was a child, while the son is always given new clothes and new toys, which causes injustice in the family.
My son was mischievous in school, and he had to face the teacher's interview every other year from elementary school to high school. He was admitted to an ordinary university in the college entrance examination, but wasted four years in college. By this time, my daughter had already married and had given birth to a child.
My son has just stepped into the society to find a job, and I arranged a place for him to live at my sister's house. Even though my daughter criticized me for not giving him any more pocket money, my son would always cry and ask me for money. Even though my daughter was dissatisfied, I secretly gave my son 1,000 yuan a month.
His monthly salary was 4,000 yuan after working, but it was quickly spent, especially after he got a girlfriend, and he had to ask me for 2,000 yuan a month. When his daughter found out, she kicked him out of the house and let him live in a rented house on his own. But I was indignant and scolded my daughter.
After my son got married, my daughter-in-law became pregnant, and I took the initiative to take care of their lives. Although my pension at that time was only 3,000 yuan, my daughter-in-law asked me to buy imported fruits and go to the supermarket every time, so 3,000 yuan a month was far from enough. I had to ask my wife to contribute an extra 1,000 yuan a month.
When my grandson was born, I was even busier. After my daughter-in-law went out to work, I was in charge of making dinner, but every time I rushed to eat, there was only a cup of green vegetable soup left. After the two young couples finished eating, they went about their own business, and the grandson was as if it were my own.
I found that the milk powder and diapers were exhausted many times, and I asked my son to buy them, but he refused on the pretext of paying the mortgage, saying that all the money was in the hands of my daughter-in-law. My daughter-in-law even forced my wife to find a job as a cleaner on the grounds that he had nothing to do, and he was paid 3,000 yuan a month.
In this way, my monthly pension of 3,000 yuan plus my wife's salary of 3,000 yuan, a total of 6,000 yuan, is all provided for my son's family. They lived a prosperous life, but they didn't seem to remember my wife and me's birthdays, on the contrary, they remembered the birthdays of my in-laws and my family clearly. That's my life now, and sometimes it's overwhelming.
Last Sunday was my mother's 56th birthday, and the two children went out shopping early in the morning. My daughter-in-law told me in advance that she would be responsible for today's meal.
At this moment, I felt a lot more relaxed, and finally I didn't have to work hard to cook. Before the meal, my daughter-in-law also took out a set of clothes, which turned out to be my fancy in the mall, but I have been reluctant to buy them, and the total price is about 1,500 yuan.
At this moment, the son took out his mobile phone and sent a big red envelope to his mother-in-law on WeChat, with an amount of 2,000 yuan. My mother-in-law smiled from ear to ear, and this birthday was quite pleasant.
I felt a little bad in my heart. Why do I have to pay 6,000 yuan a month for my two children, and they completely forget about my birthday?The mother-in-law did not pay a penny, but they were extremely filial.
In the evening, I called my daughter to tell me my grievances. But the daughter said: "My brother and sister are completely spoiled by you!.""I've given a lot since my son was a child, but he can't see it at all. He treated me like air, and in order to prevent them from continuing to be "parasites", I decided to pack up and go home.
Before going home, I had dinner with them and expressed my decision: "Son, daughter-in-law, let my mother-in-law come and bring my grandson." I'm a little tired and want to rest. Decided to go home and go on a trip with your dad!The daughter-in-law said, "Mom, you can continue to call my card for 6,000 yuan per month!."”
You still want 6,000 yuan, but even if you don't have 6 yuan in the future, you have to earn it yourself if you don't have any money. You can't keep gnawing on the old, now you're all about to become rice worms. ”
The next day, I packed my bags and went back to my hometown to let the children be on their own!I was determined not to be a "son slave" anymore.