2024 I would like to say
Be an ego, not envious, not jealous. No matter how good others are, they are still others, and no matter how bad they are, they are also themselves. Everyone has their own story in their life. It's a story of ups and downs, and it's certainly different for everyone. There is an idiom called empathy, and I would like to ask: can you really empathize?Because of the environment in which each person is located, the fluctuations in their hearts, and their own characteristics, it can only be said that it is absolutely impossible to empathize with others when they try to feel others.
Don't compare, because the more you compare, the more painful you become, the more painful you are, but the truth doesn't change. Compare yourself with yourself!For example, I earned 10,000 yuan last year and 20,000 yuan this year, which is progress.
The most important thing is to affirm yourself, don't deny yourself all the time, then you will feel more and more incomprehensible, and invisibly put pressure on yourself. For example, because you can't do a little thing well, you feel that you can't do anything, and that's wrong. Everyone has something special about each person. Promote strengths and avoid weaknesses, or redouble your efforts where you have shortcomings, in other words, efforts may not be effective, but no effort must be effective. Just like why everyone wants to do it now, many people have been working hard, and there are very few people who are really successful.
To be a self is to be a true self, and this self does not perfunctory to anyone and does not please anyone;This self does not compare itself to anyone, nor does it look down on anyone;This ego does not envy anyone, nor envy anyone;This self is a liberated self, a self without constraints, to welcome 2024