Reading "Me and the Altar of Earth", Shi Tiesheng wrote about his mother's passage "In another year, we moved, and the grief made us forget that little tree". The reader's comments made me laugh badly.
The reader wrote: "Mother is really a good character who draws inspiration from Shi Tiesheng's articles, but when I look at my mother, most of the time she is either buying, buying, or swiping her mobile phone, the times have changed." ”
I'm imagining, how old should this be a netizen who can write such a comment?If it is a post-00s, the youngest mother should be a post-80s, and the post-women in my impression are still more pragmatic;If it is a post-10, the youngest mother should be a post-90s, mothers born in the 90s, they were born in an era when materials were more abundant, it is possible to be like a reader's message, but think about it, the oldest post-10 is a 13-year-old child, and they are not allowed by their parents to leave a message in WeChat reading. The mothers of the post-60s generation, their eyes are spent, and they are also a thrifty generation. So how many years should this netizen's mother be?
I was thinking about whether this netizen was really writing about his mother, or was he using his mother to refer to the current online shopping expert.
As I pondered, I wondered, "What would my son do to his mother if he read this essay?""I'm really ashamed that when my son was 20 years old, I realized my responsibility and what kind of qualities I can pass on to my son. In the process of my son's growth, in addition to helping him take care of his daily diet, what did I leave for him on the spiritual level?I couldn't really remember it for a while.
I remember when my son was a few years old, once when he went back to his hometown, his aunt teased him and said, "What kind of girlfriend are you going to find when you grow up in the future?"”
The son said, "I'm looking for a girlfriend like my mother, because my mother loves my father the most." ”
But when he got older, he didn't think his mother was good, but he just disliked his mother's long-winded and short-sighted knowledge, complained that his mother didn't understand him, and begged his mother not to always quarrel with him.
As a mother, I only stop at feeding and cloning my children, and Xi studying hard, and I really haven't done anything worthy of praise on the spiritual level.
I remember when I was in high school, my son often said angrily: "Mom, how good your life is, just play with your mobile phone." Although I have the idea of teaching by word and deed, the attraction of mobile phones is too great, and I finally can't resist **, and I become a negative teaching material in my mother.
It is said that I gave birth to a child and gave my child life, but in fact, it was the child who taught me how to live and gave me a chance to live again. Because of my son, I have a detailed taste of how a life starts from conception to grows into a young man of several meters now.
Because of my children, I have learned to patiently perceive the process of life growth, listen to my inner voice, and be more kind and loving to life.
Because of the child, I discovered the potential of love in my heart, and I found that my heart is soft and warm.
This netizen's message evoked a sense of responsibility in my heart, although I didn't buy and buy online, but the ** number was a lot of brushes.
While I was reflecting, I was also vigorously searching for the remaining positive memories in front of my son, and it seemed that I couldn't count a few. If I have to reduce my guilt and find some excuses to comfort myself, I hope that I can set an example for my children by insisting on exercising, keeping a diary, and reading every day.
If I think about this, then I should insist on improving my writing skills. Only in this way can the son absorb a little nutrients, inspiration and strength from his mother when he thinks of his mother in the future.
In fact, for me, insisting on doing some things is also to develop the Xi of using my body, brain, and thoughts every day, so as to make life more meaningful.