In our lives, some people choose to be single and enjoy freedom and independence. However, there are also people who choose marriage for a variety of reasons, even though it is not all smooth sailing. Sometimes, people face all kinds of problems and difficulties, and one of them is marrying a mom boy. This kind of man is not mature enough to take on his own responsibilities, let alone to his wife. Stories like this play out every day, and today, I'm going to tell you a poignant story.
Jiangxi's Internet celebrity Sister Hua is a very talented person, and she became popular on the Internet with her unique image and funny**. However, fate was not quite fair to her. On December 24 last year, we received a sad news - Sister Hua passed away of lung cancer at the age of 46. While this news makes people regret, it also makes people think deeply about the fragility and impermanence of life.
Sister Hua left behind a minor son, and they were supposed to spend quality time together and enjoy the happiness of parenting. However, unfortunately, Sister Hua met an immature husband who was irresponsible to Sister Hua and could not give her and her son a happy family. Such a husband makes people feel helpless and chilling, why do some people choose to harm their partners?
Sister Hua's death also brought people to think about life, she had endured for the sake of face and family, and endured misfortune and grievances. Her passing makes us understand that happiness is not based on endless patience and grievances. Everyone should be able to be treated with the respect and love they deserve, and marriage should not be a torture.
Sister Hua's life is full of misfortune and pain, although she once had a happy marriage, but later suffered the pain of divorce. Despite this, there was no hatred and discord between her and her ex-husband, and they still maintained a good relationship. After Sister Hua learned that she had cancer, her ex-husband came to visit her in person and told her that although they were no longer husband and wife, she would always be the mother of the child, and missing this incident might make them regret it for the rest of their lives.
However, unlike her ex-husband, Sister Hua's current husband disappointed her very much. When they started a family, many were skeptical about her choice. Because Sister Hua has been divorced, she has been accused of being a "chaff", and although her current husband is also divorced, his parents are retired teachers and love him like a pearl in the palm of his hand. With the help of their parents-in-law, the two held a grand wedding, which made people think that they would have a happy future.
However, this is not the case. Sister Hua once revealed that during her pregnancy, her husband was indifferent to her, and even expressed in the chat that he was bored with her past marriage. He never forgot his ex-wife, which made Sister Hua feel embarrassed and disappointed. What's even more frustrating is that when my mother-in-law died, my father-in-law started a new marriage, but unfortunately he also suffered from lung cancer. Since her husband had never worked, and the family expenses were all borne by Sister Hua, she had to start a life of displacement.
After her husband's repentance, he began to go out to work to earn money. However, the accident left him swollen all over his body and had to rely on medication to survive. As a wife and mother, Sister Hua had to take on the responsibility of taking care of the whole family. For a long time, she faced great stress and psychological burden, insecurity and low mood.
Around 2021, Sister Hua was diagnosed with lung cancer, and she underwent a grueling operation that allowed her to continue her life. However, after the surgery, her quality of life deteriorated dramatically, and she was unable to work to earn money and had to rely on the help of others to live. At the beginning of this year, her condition deteriorated, the cancer cells metastasized throughout her body, and her body was so thin that she was only skinny and bone-covered. Her death is heart-wrenching and makes people angry about the injustices of life.
Sister Hua's story has sparked people's thinking about marriage. Marriage is a complex relationship that requires effort and dedication from both parties. However, in some cases, marriage becomes a pain and suffering that is unbearable. We should learn to respect and cherish each other, share responsibilities and obligations, and not use marriage as an excuse to dislike and hurt each other.
Marriage should not be just a formality, but a relationship of mutual support and care. Everyone should have their own bottom line and dignity, and don't grieve themselves for the sake of face and other people's expectations. Sister Hua once blindly chose to endure for the sake of her family, but the result was pain and sadness.
Marriage needs to be based on mutual respect and love, and only then can we have a happy and fulfilling life. We should learn to choose a partner that suits us and avoid marrying a mommy man or an immature person. We deserve a happy family with true love and care.
Through the story of Sister Hua, we can deeply understand the importance of marriage to a person. Sister Hua's unhappy life tells us that marriage should not become a kind of torture and pain, we should know how to protect ourselves and cherish our happiness and dignity. We must not allow marriage to cause us pain, but learn to be courageous in seeking our own happiness. Only in this way can we live a happy life in the true sense of the word.