Remember, when you are in a relationship with a man, no matter how much you love, there are 3 kinds of things that are not suitable for saying
Falling in love is a beautiful part of life, but while enjoying the joy of love, we also need to understand what kind of language is indispensable in the couple's life and how to use it at the right time. Otherwise, we may ruin our relationship with our partner by saying something we shouldn't have said.
On this topic, we can take a look at some of the topics in gender affection, couple life, and family relationships, through a series of vivid stories, to help readers understand how to deal with these difficulties in their daily lives.
Xiao Fang and Xiao Ming are a sweet couple who met in college and quickly developed a deep bond because of their similar interests and values. After graduating, they co-founded a successful business. Despite the busyness and stress of their lives, their love remains the same.
One day, Xiao Fang felt guilty for making a mistake at work, and she confided in Xiao Ming about her feelings. Xiao Ming tried to comfort her and said, "It's okay, I've forgiven you." You just have to work hard and make up for your mistakes. ”
However, Xiaofang suddenly remembered that a month ago, she accidentally caused the company to lose a big customer while working. She looked at Xiao Ming guiltily and thought: If this mistake was not because of her own mistake, maybe it would not have caused the company to suffer heavy losses.
So, she couldn't help but say what was in her heart: "If I had worked harder at that time, I wouldn't have made such a mistake." ”
Xiao Ming frowned, and said a little uncomfortably, "I'm sorry, I understand your feelings." But we're all working hard to make up for this mistake together. ”
Since then, despite her improvements, she is still prone to anxiety at work, worrying that her performance will not meet expectations. Although Xiao Ming has been encouraging her, he also feels helpless, because he knows that it will take time to make up for the mistakes he has made in the past.
After a period of love, Xiao Fang and Xiao Ming finally came to the palace of marriage. They believe that now that they have become husband and wife, they can communicate openly and share each other's thoughts and feelings without reservation.
So, they started sharing more things in their family life. Sometimes, they will talk about child-rearing issues in the evening, and sometimes, they will share each other's work pressures and family chores.
One day, Xiao Fang complained to Xiao Ming, saying, "I think you know me too well, as if you always know what I'm thinking." ”
Xiao Ming was stunned for a moment, and then replied seriously: "I know that you are very kind and hard-working, but this does not mean that I can fully understand your feelings. Everyone has their own worries and secrets, and I don't want you to feel constrained. ”
Since then, Xiao Fang has begun to reflect on herself, and she realizes that she is too dependent on Xiao Ming in her married life. And Xiao Ming also learned an important truth: husband and wife should keep a certain distance from each other and respect each other's feelings, instead of blindly relying on and guessing.
Xiao Fang and Xiao Ming have been separated for a long time due to work reasons. Although they communicate with each other every week, the intimacy with each other gradually wanes.
One day, Xiaofang suddenly found that she felt more and more empty in her married life. She began to think about how to save her relationship with Xiao Ming.
So, she decided to try to understand Xiao Ming's work and support him. When she asked Xiao Ming, "Do you have any troubles lately?"”
Xiao Ming hesitated for a moment, and then said, "Actually, I have encountered some difficulties at work, but I have never dared to tell you. ”
Xiao Fang encouraged, "Do you need my help?"I will give you my full support. ”
Since then, Xiao Fang has taken the initiative to care about Xiao Ming's business development, providing him with advice and help. Xiao Ming felt his wife's love and gradually learned to share his troubles with his wife.
After a period of hard work, Xiao Ming's work has made significant progress. And Xiaofang also felt a long-lost sense of intimacy in family life.
In married life, knowing when and where to say what is appropriate and how to deal with conflicts and problems between husband and wife are skills that we all need to learn. Whether it's in love, marriage or family, we need to cherish each other's feelings, respect each other's feelings, and face life's challenges together.
Men and women in a relationship need to learn to communicate and understand each other's needs and expectations. Married couples need to learn to be tolerant and understanding, and to provide support and help to each other. Family members need to learn to share and share and work together for family harmony.
As long as we are able to use appropriate communication skills in the relationship between the sexes, in our married life and in our family relationships, we will be able to better handle our feelings and enjoy a happy life.