To fall in love with someone is to be open-minded, to get along like a blank sheet of paper, to be with your lover, to know everything, and to maintain absolute sincerity.
Presumably this is the beginning of the love between men and women, and there will be some manifestations in love, thinking that falling in love with a person is the soul without reservation and sincere relatively.
Once you find out that the other person is hiding something from you, you will wonder if the love between you is real. At the same time, he will stupidly blindly say all the words in his heart to the other person, thinking that this is a manifestation of loving someone.
But in fact, talking too much is like pouring water into a water tank, which can easily overflow and cause trouble, and really smart people will be emotionally "hidden".
The unbearable past is like a fly, even if you don't say it, you will always nail it in your heart, reminding yourself that in the depths of memory, there are memories that cannot be easily touched.
If you can't hold it in your mouth, not only will it not change any status quo, but it will make the wound that is about to scab even worse.
It's better to keep it in your heart and never say it again, as if nothing had happened.
An emotional self-a** blogger once wrote such a story:
There is a man and a woman from poor families, they both go to the big city to make a living, because of their limited ability, there is no way to work in other industries, so they have to do something invisible with rich people, so as to make life easier.
When the couple met, each with a certain amount of financial accumulation, they hid their experiences, fell in love with each other, took all their savings, flew to a place where no one knew them, and started a new life.
Sometimes the unbearable experience is just for the immediate happiness, if you know everything, it seems to be honest, but it will bury a thorn in the relationship, which is difficult to last.
When a person is always looking back, he will never go far, and when a person is not willing to give up the pain of the past, he will live in pain forever.
Some seem to have forgotten the past and will gradually forget it with a new life, but if these memorable things are put in a new life, then the exchange will only be a painful procrastination.
A wise person hides the painful experience from his partner because when the pleasure is shared, it is a mutual pleasure, and when the pain is shared, it is doubly painful.
Just like in "Home", the mother of the previous patriarchal house like Kim did not appear, although the life of like Kim and his colleagues was bumpy, with all kinds of challenges and crises, they were all full of happy undertones in the end.
When Fang Rujin's mother appeared in front of her with a painful experience that Fang Rujin didn't want to mention, a series of uneasiness and troubles followed.
It is precisely because of the relationship between the original family that Fang Rujin has been trembling in love, she doesn't dare to love others or believe in other people's love, thinking that a good cover will not be known, and she can get along with Xu Wenchang with a relaxed look.
But the truth arises, getting along is no longer peaceful, and there is always a feeling of salvation and being saved between them.
Both men and women will be emotionally narrow-minded, and no one can accept that there is an unforgettable past in the present, otherwise it will become a knot that is difficult to cross when getting along.
Just like "Falling in Love with Special Forces" in this drama, Liang Muze and Xia Chu fell in love, but Xia Chu's ex was outdated and played the role of a villain.
In order to make Liang Muze angry, the former recalled the first love time with Chu Xia in front of Chu Xia, and deliberately said that Chu Xia was his first kiss, and he was the first man to enter his heart in Chu Xia.
I have to say that the male protagonist knows the male protagonist's heart best, and the early summer approach has achieved the effect of making Liang Muze angry before, and the jealous Liang Muze must get along with the early summer for a while to make up for the male protagonist's unhappiness.