The love between men and women is too simple to call communication, the exchange of ideas between each other, the deep level of you have me, I have you, is the real soul mate.
When two people come together, some relationships are destined to have too many yardsticks and ignore the relationship itself, so that the slightest test in the process of getting along will fall apart;
Only by accepting each other from the depths of the soul, seeing through what kind of person the other person is, and appreciating all the shortcomings of the other half, can you still choose tolerance, and such feelings can last for a long time.
Emotionally important relationships seem to be the hardest to find, and even if you want to get the most basic emotional value out of your significant other, it means taking something.
But that doesn't stop two people who truly love each other from becoming soulmates.
Good lovers, mutually recognized, willing to treat the good and bad in their partner's humanity with the same attitude.
True love is never the first cause and effect, just obsessed with the novelty of the first time, but even if you have been getting along very plainly and witnessing each other's most sloppy and unbearable appearances, you can still stay sober and know that only by accepting everything about a person is the one who truly has the other person who loves each other.
Just like the TV series "Out-of-Court Trial", Tang Chu asked Qiao Shaoting if there were any shortcomings that he hated.
Joe Chotin answered truthfully, yes.
But these shortcomings are precisely combined with the advantages and combined into a complete Tang Chu, if you want Tang Chu to change the shortcomings on his body and make his lover become another person, then this love will become meaningless.
True love is knowing that a person's shortcomings are as many as the stars, but the existence of the advantages is like the sun, which can cover up all the shortcomings.
Recognition and acceptance, giving up the mentality of seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages, this is the tacit understanding between soul mates.
Loving someone is not a momentary thing, but a day, a lifetime of waiting.
Soul mates agree with each other that they will never abandon each other for the rest of their lives, and only when they are with each other can they get along comfortably, and they are fully compatible with their other half, so that the person around them becomes another person, and there will be no motivation to love.
Just like Qian Zhongshu and Yang Jiang, they loved each other and helped each other when they were young.
In the long years of life, they have experienced all kinds of difficult moments and unimaginable mental blows, but no matter what problems they encounter, the most persistent belief in their hearts is that they must give their partners a complete version of themselves, love each other deeply, and cherish each other, so they have the courage to persevere in the process of hardships and hardships.
In "The Two of Us", Yang Jiang recalled the days with Qian Zhongshu, and expressed the most hope that the family could get together neatly and never be separated again.
Until he was old, Qian Zhongshu left the world first, leaving Yang Jiang alone in the world.
Former friends Fei Xiaotong and old Yang Jiang expressed their good feelings, Yang Jiang refused, unwilling to accept, and Qian Zhongshu fell in love for a lifetime, and the bits and pieces of getting along with each other have been completely integrated into their bones, and they have experienced the most unforgettable love in their lives, and after the journey with their soul mates, they can no longer accommodate others into life.
A true soul mate is a firm person who agrees with each other, and even in the face of wind and frost, the existence of the other party is the most beautiful sunshine that can make life continue to bloom.
A couple of people for a lifetime, after falling in love, unswerving.
At the wedding, the master of ceremonies will let the groom and the bride stand face to face, and seriously ask each other if they are willing to choose to become husband and wife, regardless of birth, old age, sickness and death.
As the saying goes: husband and wife are birds in the same forest, flying each other when disaster strikes. It's much easier to say something in response than to put it into practice in life.
If two people are soul mates and their relationship with each other has gone beyond the boundaries of an ordinary couple, they will see each other as important and can be prioritized in various choices in life.
True love is only once in a lifetime.
Just like Sanmao and Jose, after meeting when they were young, fate did not end, and they finally became husband and wife. Sanmao and Jose have too many similarities, and those strange-looking people in Sanmao will be unconditionally appreciated by Jose in the eyes of others.
In order to fulfill Sanmao's dream, Jose eloped with her to live in the Sahara Desert;Jose left this world in the first three shots, her life lost all color, she was unhappy, and she took the initiative to end her life without nostalgia.
Although the love of soul mates does not have to be like Sanmao and Jose, they will also think that each other is the only one in their lives, and they will not marry or marry.
There's a saying on the Internet that says it particularly well:
If you want to find your soulmate, you need to find your soul.
Having an ideal love ultimately requires us to become a better version of ourselves, meet better people, have the same understanding of feelings, and have common expectations for love.
A soulmate is like love, it is an understanding, a recognition, a following, or an unparalleled heart-to-heart exchange.