If love is compared to a bouquet of flowers, the process of managing love is to water and fertilize the flowers.
There is no love for no reason in this world, only by giving can you get something, and only by doing your best in love can you enjoy the pleasure of being loved.
What is really valuable is that if you want a man to treat himself as a treasure of love, a wise woman knows how to manage herself and will play carefully in love, so that the beloved man can get closer little by little.
Senior hunters always appear in the form of prey, and a wise woman who falls in love with a person will not dedicate herself without a bottom line with a humble gesture, but in the process of getting along with the other half, she will win the heart of a man with cleverness and wisdom.
There's an old saying: don't take the bait when you catch a fish.
In human nature, when something you want is delayed, you will do your best to keep giving, and even when you encounter difficulties, you will not give up, and there will be even more setbacks.
Men do the same when they pursue women, but without stimulating the desire to conquer, making giving more frequent.
If it's too easy to have, it won't put in too much effort, just like the fish you catch just need to be put in the tank, and you would be willing to continue to put in too much effort
The easier it is for a woman to be chased, the easier it is for a man to weaken his power to continue to work in love, he didn't invest too much, chased his sweetheart into his hands, knowing that the price of conquering a person doesn't have to be too much, and cherishing it won't be too deep.
A smart woman knows how to manage a relationship, take the lead in maintaining a sense of distance from the other party, increase the sunk cost, and make the other party inseparable from herself, so that she can have more initiative in the relationship.
The closer the distance between two people, the more the freshness will seem faint, there is no taste of getting along, it is difficult for such a woman to make a man feel like wanting to live together for a lifetime, after all, you can look at the head of the day, who does not want to repeat 365 days.
When a smart woman controls a man's heart, she will be like a cat, looking docile and suitable for home, but in fact, there is a tree-climbing ability hidden behind the man, sometimes wild, sometimes euphemistically polyhedron can give men a sense of freshness when getting along.
In this life, no matter who you are with, no matter how beautiful the other party makes a vow, there is one truth that will never change:
In any relationship, you need to do a good job in after-sales service and give each other a better self.
In love, I think it's good for two people to be together, and a woman who doesn't know how to improve herself is like a donkey with poor skills, and when a man sees the value of a few pounds and pounds, he won't continue to work hard.
A woman who can make a man continue to invest in energy will continue to improve herself, become better and better, and will impress the heart of a man who is willing to follow.
Good love doesn't happen overnight, and without care, you can get what you want.
Zhang Ailing once said that falling in love with someone will become humble to the dirt until a flower blooms in the dirt.
A lovely person who blindly manages love with a humble attitude will only become a beggar in love and let others look down on him.
Women, if you want to keep a man's heart, you should remember one sentence:
True love is mutual attraction, and good relationships are based on mutual appreciation.
Love is important, but in life, who is together in the final analysis is to get along with themselves, and if they can understand their own life, they will manage love more calmly.
Love can nourish oneself, like a man, the most correct posture is to become a better self, worthy of the other party's love.
Don't just be a seeker of light, make yourself the light so that you can attract those who want to be close.