As Mr. Liu said, when a married man suddenly has a lot of phenomena that did not exist before, it is actually a sign of a change of heart.
Especially when the man began to do these three things frequently, it was clear that he had a strange feeling in his heart.
Often working late.
There is no increase in income.
Overtime is a common excuse for men to find extramarital time and love after changing their minds, so that they can have enough time difference to be with extramarital love.
The woman is stupidly waiting for the man to come back from overtime at home, but she doesn't know that the other party is doing something that hurts the feelings of the husband and wife in the name of working overtime.
As Shakespeare said: The mind is full of deception, and the wife is suspicious of her husband's every move.
is like Gao Jiawei in "Wife's Choice", in order to cover up the truth in his marriage, he always does not go home in the name of overtime, and secretly goes to his extramarital lover's house to spend the night together, often working overtime, but his career has not made any progress, and he has made a mess of his work because of the "overtime project".
Soon, Gao Jia's suspicion of not being able to take care of his wife's performance made his wife realize the existence of her husband's extramarital love.
I often work late, but the time to go home is very irregular. This may mean that the object of overtime is no longer just work, but has a lover outside of marriage.
Loves to travel.
He won't bring his wife with him.
If a man changes his mind, he will find all kinds of excuses to be separated from his wife for a longer period of time, so that there is enough time and space to be with a lover outside of marriage.
Just like Feng Yu in "The Wind Blows in the Summer", he likes to take his extramarital lover with him when he travels, and almost all his business partners know about the existence of Feng Yu's extramarital lover.
Even if the wife knows, there is no way to keep her husband at home and not go anywhere, but once the husband agrees to go to a distant place, it means that the husband spends extremely intimate time with other women.
As Wu Chengen said: I am most afraid of frequent travel, and if I go again, there will be romance.
If a man is particularly keen on going out or traveling, but rarely invites you to go with him, it is enough to show that he has secret secrets, such as emotional entanglements with others.
I'm not afraid of how far my husband goes, I'm afraid of how far I plan to go, and others.
Always staring at your phone.
Sometimes you giggle.
If a man has an extramarital lover, it is equivalent to talking about a new love, and the relationship has entered a second spring.
As a result, natural expressions in love will reappear in a man's daily life, such as often chatting with an extramarital lover and smirking at each other's words or expressions.
Just like Xu Wanshan in "Thirty Years Old" likes Lin Youyou, they often chat on their mobile phones.
The most dangerous time was that Xu Moshan was chatting under the noses of the Gu family and the Lin family, and Xu Moshan did not react to what the Gu family said, and turned around to look, only to find that her husband was staring at the phone and smirking.
Needless to say, it must be the novelty of other women that attracts the husband's attention.
A man who does not rely on his phone becomes fond of looking at his phone, and he often has a sense of mystery.
This shows that men have some secrets that they can't tell in front of you, otherwise they wouldn't be so mysterious.