A married man may be the envy of most unmarried men!However, after getting married, men have unspeakable pain in their hearts, and once three things happen, this will make them scared to the point of headaches and uneasy!
1. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not harmonious!
The discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a major problem faced by many men after marriage. If the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not harmonious, it will lead to family disharmony and even pose a threat to the marriage.
A bad relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will put the husband in a dilemma, which will not only affect the family atmosphere, but also create a gap between the husband and wife.
Men need to handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law well, so that both parties can live in harmony in order to maintain family harmony and marital happiness.
At this time, the man needs to have enough wisdom and patience to reconcile the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, so that the family can return to a harmonious state.
Second, the feelings have faded!
After a man gets married, he is most afraid that the relationship between himself and his wife will become weaker and weaker. In married life, the relationship between two people needs to be constantly maintained and cultivated!
If you don't pay attention to it, it's easy to have problems. If the relationship between husband and wife becomes weaker and weaker, it will lead to a crisis in the marriage.
After getting married, married life, quarrels are inevitable!If there is a quarrel between a man and a woman, who is the most powerful?I believe that the answer for most people is women.
Because women already have an advantage in terms of congenital conditions, after all, women are superior to men in terms of language advantage. When men and women quarrel, it is obvious that they are defeated.
In the process of arguing, the man will develop a deep sense of frustration, so that he will feel that the other half is strong, unreasonable, and does not want to communicate with the other person.
And most of the time women will choose not to give up, and when they see the other party's indifferent appearance, they will be angry.
As a result, women will extend the problem to principle, feeling that men don't want to communicate when they encounter problems, and they just don't love themselves if they adopt cold violence.
One side is silent and refuses to communicate;The other party was unrelenting and hysterical, both parties were unable to communicate effectively, and the relationship naturally broke down slowly.
Most men spend a lot of time, energy, and money in order to get married. When there are too many quarrels, their attitude towards marriage will become very negative and they will unconsciously want to escape.
After marriage, women are often easy to relax themselves, feeling that the two are the closest people when they get married, so no matter what they say.
Coupled with their natural language advantage, it is easy for them to say all their inner words without embellishment in the process of getting along with men.
Sometimes, these words are mixed with all kinds of dissatisfaction, and the words spoken are like carrying a sharp sword straight into the chest of men, causing them great damage.
Nowadays, the frequency of divorce is very high and has become a common phenomenon in today's society!Excluding the reasons for extramarital affairs, most couples often have discord because of some trivial quarrels, which become more and more intense, such as a flood, there is an uncontrollable scene, and finally the breakup ends!
Therefore, when the relationship between husband and wife is about to face a crisis, the couple should communicate and understand each other more!After all, it is fate to walk together, and if you are separated, how easy is it to find it again?
3. I am most afraid that my woman will be wronged and suffer!
Many men face financial pressure after marriage. For example, raising children, paying off mortgages, paying household expenses, etc. I had to go out to work, leaving my wife and children at home.
If a man does not have a stable income or does not have enough savings, he will face a lot of financial pressure, which can take a big hit to the man's self-esteem and confidence. And working outside the home can't take care of my wife and children!
In the face of poverty in life, watching the wife of his good wife and mother accompany him to endure hardships, it is really unbearable and helpless!
Originally, his wife's family was good, but after following you, she lived such a poor life, his wife and children were sick, and the man couldn't go back to take care of him immediately when he was working outside, which is an indelible pain in the life of a man after marriage!
The wife was wronged and suffered, and would rather cry secretly and vent in the corner by herself, but behaved so strong in front of her man!
The wife was a beautiful girl before marriage, but she became an old woman after marriage, and she lived such vicissitudes of life, which is what men are most afraid of seeing!
And women should sometimes understand the difficulty of men, to communicate more and get along in harmony, advance and retreat with each other, as the saying goes, husband and wife work together to break the gold!Start planning for my 2024