Life is made up of what kind of person you choose to be and what kind of life you are destined to live.
Some women, like the darlings of fate, can live happily regardless of the living environment, and even if they are married, they can maintain family harmony;
Others are always habitually bad, as if they have been plagued by bad luck all their lives, and they can't get rid of it.
In fact, if a woman is unhappy after marriage, there is a high probability that she will ask for it, and there are three things that can be explained well.
Too much love. Marrying the wrong person.
Marriage is three-quarters of your life, and what kind of partner you choose to spend the rest of your life with really matters.
If you choose the wrong one, you will really suffer for a lifetime, and such a bitter fruit can only be swallowed by yourself.
Writer Charles Baudelaire said:
Choosing a marriage partner is even more so, if you blindly fall in love first and ignore other things in the man, such behavior is like opening a blind box, and other qualities in the man can easily lead to unhappy marriage.
is like An Jiahe in "Don't Talk to Strangers", she looked hypocritical before marriage, and she couldn't see any unhappiness with such a man.
After getting married, Mei Xiangnan found that her husband was very controlling, and sometimes she felt like a demon living in her heart, which caused her to be hurt physically and mentally to varying degrees.
Choosing a marriage partner, not just by feelings, more importantly, by character, if you have been married but find that trust is not there, you must make a bold and timely decision to stop loss.
Get used to palms up.
Make a canary in a cage.
I will raise you after marriage" is the most beautiful love story in the world, but it is also the most fake love story.
Because there is an affirmative effect in the relationship, women only know how to do it for a long time in the relationship but never consider the pressure to make money for men, and always bury a mine in the relationship and make the other party tired.
is like Luo Zijun in "The First Half of My Life", who is used to relying on her husband to support her and live a worry-free life. Fortunately, her husband Chen Junsheng can afford her with the money he earns, but even a person with an excellent personality like Chen Junsheng still feels very pressured.
Seeing that his wife is becoming less and less motivated in the marital relationship, and the common language with herself is becoming less and less, I can't help but feel dissatisfied in my heart, and I have an abnormal extramarital relationship with a female colleague in the unit.
Men don't need women to make much money, but men appreciate women who are willing to work hard to improve themselves for the sake of their families and actively earn money.
Women can rely on men emotionally, financially, and spiritually to remain independent because it is a powerful primal force that can exude a lasting charm that attracts men to stay around.
It's moody.
Don't know how to control your emotions.
A woman who knows how to manage her emotions can maintain the image of a good wife and mother in front of her husband and children, make them feel warm and safe, and let hobbies flow between everyone.
Conversely, those women who are unhappy in their marriages tend to be violent and capricious.
A woman who is not good at controlling her emotions and always loses her temper at will will make her husband feel terrible and will not see the gentle side of a woman. If she meets an extramarital lover, she will most likely crave the tenderness and gentleness that outsiders give her. What's more, she will become more and more impatient in the face of her wife, and thus show a worse attitude towards her.
A woman with a bad temper has a huge impact on her children, which will make her seriously insecure and think that it is her fault that makes her mother unlovable.
Families do not run by temper, but need a flow of love and kindness so that the hearts of the whole family can be tightly connected.
Taking care of your emotions is not only responsible for your own body, but also a prerequisite for ensuring the happiness of your family.
Some people say that after getting married, it is the bad external environment that causes women to do worse things.
In fact, the source lies in yourself, as the saying goes: how others treat you is your own permission.
Choosing a partner is your own vision, getting along with a partner is your own personal run-in, and all behaviors and attitudes are references for the behaviors and attitudes that others use to get along.