Girls often ask me how to confirm a man's mind and judge whether a man really likes himActually, this way of judging is relatively simple.
Because it's not just men, in fact, each of us has a different attitude when facing the person we like, and if we like it, we will show it, and it's the same if we don't like it.
Whether a man loves you or not, you must be able to feel it yourself, if you can't feel it, it is not love. Of course, it is not excluded that some men are pretending to love you very much and deliberately hanging you, but in fact you are just one of the many fish in his fish pond.
So in what ways can you confirm a man's mind and judge whether he really loves you or is raising fish?I'll teach you a few ways to do it.
First, trust your instincts
What is intuition?It's actually the release of past experience and knowledge through the subconscious, and when something you can't judge with reason and logic, you can trust your intuition.
This is really not a joke. According to psychological research, our intuition is often more accurate than we think. Judging from the teacher's experience in emotional counseling over the years, the vast majority of women are basically suspicious and accurate in their relationships.
Whether a man is sincere to you or pretended, you can definitely feel it. If you say you can't tell the difference, there's no way to be sure, there's only one reason.
It's that you have a need for him, so you are lucky, you are paralyzing yourself, convincing yourself, unwilling to accept the fact that he doesn't really like you.
Even if he is very good at acting this man, he is not an actor after all, no matter how good he pretends to be, there will definitely be times when his flaws are exposed.
So, girls, if you are unpredictable about this man's mind, and he is also hot and cold to you, then you might as well trust your instincts, maybe he just doesn't like you that much.
When he flirts with you, he may just want to use you as his spare tire, and when he feels bored and bored, he will immediately put you into the cold palace, ignore you, and let yourself fall into self-doubt.
Second, it depends on how much he pays for you
If a man really loves someone, he will be willing to be good to you, want to do more for you, pay more, and hope that you can live happily every day. If you're upset, he'll be even more upset than you.
There was a girl before, who was more in love with her brain, and said to me, "Teacher, he said that he would be good to me in the future, buy me a big house, take me to travel to various places, and make me the happiest woman, and I don't have to envy anyone's ......."”
Then she believed it, and she was moved by the big cake drawn by the man, thinking that she had met true love, and she paid hard for this man, but what happened in the end?was prostituted by the other party for nothing.
So, I've been telling you all the time, to judge whether a man is sincere to you, you don't look at what he says, but what you have to look atSee what he's done for you.
Everyone is an adult, and there is no need to fix those false things, no matter how good what you say, it is far less meaningful than the actual effort. If you want to confirm a man's heart, you have to wait for him to really pay for you, and then you can believe it.
This kind of payment is not only an economic effort, but also a time and energy effort. If he doesn't spend money on you or spend time on you, and only talks sweet words, then you let him roll as far as he can.
Third, look at his attitude towards you during the quarrel
To judge how much a person loves you, you can't just look at how good he is to you when you get along normally, but what more should you see?Look at how bad he is to you when you are arguing, or when he is in a bad mood.
If he really loves you, then he will definitely take the initiative to tolerate your little temperament, and he will accommodate you in quarrels. His attitude towards you after a quarrel is the most obvious manifestation of judging whether he loves you or not. Because when a person is angry, he often shows his truest side.
If a man is very emotional and angry with each other after your fierce quarrel, and even when he feels very wronged, he can still control his emotions, coax you in turn, apologize to you, admit his mistakes, and admit his mistakes, then this person must care about you very much.
Because I love you so much, I'm afraid of losing you. On the other hand, if you don't love you, he won't care about your feelings, if you are angry, you will be angry, if you are sad, he will not take the initiative to coax you, as long as he is happy.
Fourth, look at his rejection of ambiguous scales for you
In fact, when you are really down-to-earth and loved, you don't need to do anything at all, this man will use his own practical actions to make you feel at ease.
He will have a strong sense of boundaries and will consciously keep a distance from other members of the opposite sex, and will not let you have any worries, let alone feel insecure.
A person who really loves you, in his eyes and heart, must be only you.
Needless to say, he will remain absolutely loyal to you. No matter how good or excellent other women are, they have nothing to do with him, he will not have any temptation, he will take the initiative to refuse all ambiguity for you.
The more he loves you, the more he cares about your feelings and won't allow himself to do anything to hurt you. On the other hand, if he is also very passionate about other women and has an ambiguous relationship, it means that he is not sincere enough about you, and even just wants to play with you.
Fifth, see if he will disclose your existence
This is the most direct way to judge whether a man really loves you or is "raising fish". Let me ask you a question, what do you think is the most important thing about "fish farming"?Is it the quantity or the quality?
Actually, it's not, the most important thing is that each fish can't know each other's existence. So an experienced Sea King, he not only has a set of time management, but also what will he do?
will do a good job in the grouping of his circle of friends, "only you can see" this function, and the one he uses is called a skill. He is afraid that others will know about your existence, which will affect his personality, let alone take you into his social circle.
And the man who really likes you, not only will he not hide your existence, but he can't wait for others to know about your relationship, and he can't wait to tell the world that you are together.
On the one hand, it is to declare sovereignty and dissuade those potential suitors around you, and on the other hand, it can also make other people of the opposite sex around him not come to the side, and he wants to be with you.
He will post to the circle of friends to disclose your relationship as soon as he establishes a relationship with you, and will let his family and friends know about your existence and take the initiative to bring you into his circle.
So, if a man is very detached from you, has a vague attitude, and always finds all kinds of excuses to avoid you from contact with the people around him, it means that he doesn't really like you, but is just using you as a spare tire.
If you meet this kind of man, don't doubt it, and don't worry about it. Just listen to the teacher, run, run quickly, so that you won't be hurt by the scumbag, so that you won't miss the man who really loves you.
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