Neighbor Xiaojuan and his wife opened a small company, and they had to do everything themselves, but they were too busy to stay at home, and the children's pick-up and drop-off, food and accommodation became a problem. Xiaojuan's parents-in-law said that she was not in good health, the child was too naughty, her back hurt and she couldn't take care of it. Helpless, Xiaojuan had no choice but to ask her mother to come over to help take care of the child in order to solve her urgent needs.
I didn't know that my grandmother hadn't taken her grandson for a few days, and Xiaojuan's mother-in-law came to the door, saying that my grandmother didn't take good care of her grandson, and the three meals a day for her grandson were not scientific at all, which made her grandson lose weight and blacken. also said that her grandmother would not take the child, and her grandson was frozen and coughed.
After all, she felt sorry for her daughter and grandson, and she was afraid that she would pick her own son, and her daughter would take care of both her work and children, and she would be even more busy, and she was afraid that her grandson would be hungry and full of food and spoil his body.
In fact, it is a very common phenomenon for grandmothers to help take care of children. But many times, when the grandmother takes the child, she will feel that she is facing a thankless dilemma, such as the grandparents of the grandson feel that the grandmother interferes too much, and overstepping, for example, because of the grandson's education problems, the relationship between the grandmother and the daughter is out of harmony, and so on. Even so, many grandmothers are still rushing to bring their grandchildren, why is this?
First of all, grandmothers love their children and grandchildren. In my grandmother's view, the child was a continuation of the family and a symbol of hope. They are willing to give their time and energy to help their daughters take care of their children to ensure that they receive the best possible care and environment for them to grow up. For grandmothers, it is an incomparable sense of happiness and satisfaction to see their children grow up healthy and happy.
Secondly, the grandmother enjoyed spending time with the children. As she grows older, her grandmother may feel lonely and lack companionship. And bringing children just fills the emptiness in their lives. A child's innocent and lively smile can bring endless joy and joy to grandma. Playing, Xi, and growing up with her grandchildren makes grandma feel like she still has value and a sense of existence.
In addition, grandmothers taking care of children is also a way to pass on family values. As the elders of the family, grandmothers want to pass on their experience and wisdom to the next generation. By spending time with their grandchildren, they can teach them important values about family, morals, and culture. My grandmother hopes that through her influence, she will raise children who are excellent, responsible, and respectful of their elders.
Finally, the grandmother helped take care of the child in order to reduce the burden on her daughter. In modern society, many young parents face work-family balance issues. Due to the stress of work and their busy lives, they are often unable to take care of their children around the clock. At this time, the help of the grandmother is particularly important. Grandmothers are willing to take the initiative to take on the responsibility of taking care of their children, creating more freedom and free time for their daughters, so that they can better balance their careers and families.
Although grandmothers may encounter some difficulties and challenges in the process of raising children, they always stick to their responsibilities. They never care about hard work and dedication, they just want to see their children grow up healthily. Therefore, we should respect and cherish the efforts of grandmothers more, and give them more love and attention.
All in all, the grandmother is scrambling to bring her grandson out of love for the family and concern for the child. They are willing to take the initiative to take responsibility for their children, reduce the burden on their daughters, pass on family values, and enjoy the time they spend with their children. As children, we should be grateful for our grandmothers' efforts and try our best to create better conditions and environment for them, so that they can feel happier and more satisfied in the process of raising children.