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The journey of life is just the ups and downs of the sea of destiny.
Ups and downs, frequent wind and rain.
We are small enough to change the coming storm, but that doesn't mean there is no strength to fight it.
A person's greatest luck is:
There are three forces in a single voyage.
An open-minded mentality is concentration
The ups and downs of life, only by being open-minded and free can we survive in a desperate situation.
Su Shi, a writer of the Northern Song Dynasty, is the best example.
The 22-year-old high school jinshi has a bright future.
Unexpectedly, life is full of twists and turns.
Because of the letter to Shenzong, Su Shi bluntly said that the new deal was unfavorable, which led to him being squeezed out by the "new deal faction" who had the upper hand and had to ask for release.
Soon after, Shangshu Shenzong's "Huzhou Xie Biao" was used by people with a heart to vigorously exaggerate Su Shi's satire on the court.
Su Shi finally died nine times and was demoted to Huangzhou.
Su Shi was not without experience of depression and confusion in Huangzhou.
But instead of indulging in the sadness of depression and disappointment for too long, he quickly accepted the trials of life.
He put down the stature of the reader, cultivated the fields himself, and was self-sufficient.
Live a hermit-like life, and be content.
Su Shi, 59, was accused of defaming the imperial court and banished to the remote and wild city of Huizhou.
Huizhou is barren in the eyes of outsiders, but Su Shi, who is optimistic, sees another scene.
The scenery of the mountains and rivers of Huizhou made him linger, and Su Shi placed his affection on this landscape and wrote many poems.
He wrote poems to show that if he could eat 300 lychees a day, he would want to be a Huizhou person for the rest of his life.
The suffering of life was skillfully resolved by his open-minded and optimistic attitude.
In the more barren Danzhou, Su Shi did not give up on himself. He learned about winemaking and ink from the local people, and vigorously developed education, benefiting the people of the party and leaving a world reputation.
Throughout Su Shi's life, he has been repeatedly degraded, which can be described as ill-fated and stormy.
But I'm optimistic and open-minded, smiling and watching the wind and rain.
And wrote "Bamboo cane and mango shoes are lighter than horses, who is afraid?".Famous sentences through the ages, left for posterity to sing.
It was Su Shi's open-minded and optimistic attitude that gave him the determination not to be swept away by the wind and rain, and achieved achievements that ordinary people could not match.
In this life, there is a lot of suffering.
Or professional setbacks, or betrayals.
Some people fall, let themselves be caught in a spiral of grief and resentment, and then fall.
As we all know, good times are wasted in constant internal friction, leaving only sad sighs and emptiness in the end.
The famous painter Huang Yongyu once said:
Grief is the wrong time, so someone sent away half of their life.
It would be better if sorrow was a poem. ”
That's exactly what happened.
In the face of adversity, temporary depression is inevitable, and it is human nature to lose occasionally.
It is important to have the determination not to be swept into the abyss by suffering.
Only when we are open-minded can we sail far.
Let go of regrets and forgive more.
Life is just about letting the past pass and letting the future come.
Positive action is courage
As the saying goes, "At the trough, no matter which direction you go, it's up." ”
I think so. I once read a report.
Wang Lei, a female doctor of medicine born in the countryside, was originally an excellent doctor with a bright future.
But the sky did not go as expected, Wang Lei accidentally suffered a brain stem hemorrhage during pregnancy and was paralyzed.
To make matters worse, after the birth of the child, the husband chose to divorce.
Since then, only Wang Lei and Wang Lei's parents have been left in the family, as well as young children.
And the paralysis of the whole body often makes her feel that she is a "waste person".
She needs her parents to help her turn over and massage.
She can't do these simple things like eating and going to the toilet.
Shame attacked her violently and made her less and less worthy.
After a brief period of confusion and helplessness, Wang Lei did not want to waste his life.
Only by taking action can we have a chance to break the dilemma.
Thinking about this clearly, Wang Lei immediately began to actively do ** training, even if the sweat soaked through his clothes, he would not give up easily.
The effort was quite effective, and her body was getting better day by day.
But since she was a child, she has had the dream of "saving lives and helping the wounded", which has always haunted her ears.
She didn't want to waste her knowledge.
It's just that now she is paralyzed in bed, and offline consultation is a fantasy.
She thought of the answer online.
It turns out that those who act aggressively are rewarded.
Even if he can only use one finger to type on the keyboard, Wang Lei will do what he says.
She also founded her own public welfare forum to provide free medical consultation to the elderly, proving her life worth.
In this way, she won hope for herself in life.
Stormy waves are inevitable, and only by raising the oars in your hand can you break through and find your own light.
Our lives, are experiencing, or the hardships of life, or the confusion of banality.
Instead of being cowardly and self-harming, it is better to take action to tear open the cocoon of besieged life.
The true courage of a man is that even when he is afraid of panic, he can force himself to act in search of the light of hope.
Actively wield the spear in the face of tribulation, and fate will give you the echo you deserve.
The warmth of the family is the driving force
If you sail alone for too long, you will always get exhausted.
Only the warmth of the family can have a steady stream of strength.
My friend, Lao He, the owner of the wonton shop, told his story.
When Lao He was in other places, he made a living by opening a wonton shop, a family of four, and his life was calm and beautiful.
But the unexpected came like a sharp knife to the heart of this ordinary family.
Lao He vouched for others, but the borrower swept away all the money and disappeared.
lost everything overnight, and the eldest son also followed Lao He and his wife to avoid debts, accidentally fell down the stairs, and was disabled for life.
Lao He, who has no skills, can only go to work on the construction site in order to make a living.
When a person reaches middle age, he is humiliated by young people, and Lao He feels very uncomfortable.
He said that he also thought about a hundred, but when he thought of his wife waiting in the middle of the night and the smile of his children, he felt that there was still hope in life.
At that time, Lao He's wife always waited in a cheap rental house for him to come home late at night from overtime, cook a bowl of wontons and hand it to him.
Lao He swallowed the wonton sadly, ** the indifference and bitter snow and frost encountered when he was down.
The warmth of his family gave him the motivation to overcome the obstacles in life, and no matter how difficult it was, he had the courage to move forward.
Later, Lao He became a contractor and paid back the money, but he still chose to open a wonton shop.
Now, their family's life is on the right track and moving in a good direction.
Lao He's family is the epitome of most ordinary families.
In this life, people will encounter their own difficulties.
The most fortunate thing is to have family with you.
Unfortunately, there are always people who despise their families and get lost.
A warm home is like a port of call for rest.
When it is difficult, a cup of warm tea from a lover and a hug from a child can be turned into a driving force to move forward and set sail again.
When the wind and rain hit, they will not flee without a fight.
Because the home behind is there, the meaning of moving forward is.
The life of our ordinary people, like sailing on the sea, inevitably has waves.
If you are born without the blessing of money and power, you must learn to give yourself strength.
If you have obsessions and painful entanglements, you might as well be more open-minded and optimistic, life is still long, why miss the starlight at night because of the sunrise that has not yet arrived.
If you are wandering and confused in the trough, it is better to stand up and act, no matter which direction you go, it is up.
If family relationships aren't harmonious, why not try to change them?The direction of the home is the light of the night voyage.
In this way, one day, we will reach our own island.