Talking to children, when I was a child, it was warm + cute and cute, and when I grew up, it was a picture of chickens flying and dogs jumping, speaking seems simple but it takes skills, and the same is why some people can meet the standard in one word, and some people are eliminated faster when they say more?This is where emotional intelligence and speaking skills lie, although talking to children is not as cautious as in the workplace and on the stage, but it is also indispensable to have skills in a good word.
Be more confident
Good communication will make children more confident, and when getting along with parents, children can gain the respect and affirmation of their parents, which will naturally make children gain more self-confidence.
Parent-child communication can affect children's intellectual and personality development
One is that human intellectual development is mainly completed in childhood;Second, the main environment for intellectual development in childhood is the family environment, including the material environment and spiritual environment of the family, among which the communication between parents and children is an important aspect of the family spiritual environment.
Learn to listen
Communicating with your child requires talking about your own opinions, but you need to listen patiently to your child's ideas. Listening means avoiding interrupting your child's speech and concentrating on the process of communication. To facilitate this, communication is best done in a quiet place, with distractions that can be distracting. If you're busy cooking dinner or watching your favorite TV show, it's hard to listen carefully. Being a patient listener will help you understand your child's problems and opinions, help clarify the facts, and avoid misunderstandings about your child. Listen to your child often and you will find that your child asks you more questions, even though you are not asking for many of your children's requests and suggestions. This is because parents who are good listeners are likely to be close friends of their children.
The Law of Listening and Responding
The first step in parent-child communication is listening. From the moment children fall to the ground, they have a special curiosity about the world around them, and they may just be able to say a few words, and they can't help but ask their parents "why". As parents, we must be open to the series of questions raised by our children, listen to them and respond to them in a timely manner. It's good to ask more questions and let the child continue, comment less, and try to be a listener as much as possible. When you want to add a speech, you should also use "you" to express your consideration for the other party, and use less "I" to state your own views.
Educating children is like raising flowers, careful watering, fertilization, and care can be successful, but in fact, not everyone can raise flowers well, and if you don't know how to ask others for advice, learn the experience and art of raising flowers.
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