Sometimes, a child's innocence can make parents feel distressed. They made some small mistakes that left parents with some embarrassment and distress. For example, a child accidentally transferred 1.1 million yuan from his mother's mobile phone to a game company, which made his mother very worried. This mother is an ordinary migrant worker and can't come up with so much money to fill this huge hole. This small act can cost her a few days or even years. If her mother can't pay the bills, prison will hang over her. In this way, a child's mischievous mischievous behavior puts her under tremendous pressure.
There is also a story about a mother who sent her son to school and received a ** from the head teacher, telling her that her son had put a puppy in the classroom and asked her to take the dog home. The mother felt very embarrassed and helpless because she hadn't seen the puppy for a long time. She felt a little aggrieved, why did her son bring the dog to school? The mother had to rush to school again, although she didn't feel good in her heart, but in order to prevent the dog from hurting people in the classroom, she still chose to pick up the dog. She walked on the road with a heavy heart, but she couldn't afford to delay because if an accident happened, the responsibility would be on her. She thought about the teacher's reproach and felt very wronged. She never agreed to her son bringing the dog into school, but her son smuggled it away behind her back, and the dog didn't even bark, who could she blame? But at the same time, this mother is also aware of her responsibility, after all, this is her own son. When she arrived at the school gate and saw her son walking slowly with his head down, muttering and muttering, she knew that he must have been severely criticized by the teacher. Otherwise, this kid will definitely cheer when he sees himself, right? At this time, the son opened his schoolbag and took out a puppy, a Chinese pastoral dog. Seeing her son's reluctance, the mother kicked him. Judging by her actions, she must have been very angry. Maybe it's because of the teacher's nagging or her son's disobedience that makes her emotions uncontrollable. Although the son stood firm, the mother's behavior angered the son. He muttered disgruntled words in his mouth. The mother may have heard her son's inappropriate words and chased after him and gave him another kick. These two kicks shouldn't have much force. The son didn't look back and walked straight into the school gate. Seeing this scene, I can't help but laugh. This is actually a common daily routine with naughty bags at home. At the age of innocence, it is inevitable that children will make some small mistakes. We should deal with their mistakes with kindness and tolerance, just like this mother. Childhood is the best time in life, and as long as children don't make big mistakes, we should give them the freedom to play and not limit their nature.
These two stories may remind us of our own childhood, that carefree time. We've done a lot of things that worry our parents, but they're still willing to tolerate our naivety and mischievousness. Although they occasionally educate us in harsh ways, their love is unconditional. They don't want us to be hurt or they want us to go down the wrong path. So, when we see these stories, perhaps we should reflect on the way we treat our children. Are we sometimes too harsh, and are we sometimes not tolerant and understanding enough?
As parents, our responsibility is not only to educate our children, but also to give them enough security and love. When they make mistakes, we can educate them in a gentler way so that they understand their mistakes and correct them. We should be their guides and supporters, not pressure and punish them. What children need is our companionship and understanding, and what they need is our patience and love.
When faced with a child's mischievousness, we can choose to trust their abilities and encourage them to handle the problem properly. We can teach them to think independently and solve problems by giving them the right amount of autonomy. At the same time, we also need to give them clear rules and boundaries to help them establish the right values and codes of conduct. When they encounter setbacks and difficulties, we need to give them support and encouragement, so that they can learn to face difficulties and challenges and grow from them.
In conclusion, as parents, we need to maintain a calm mind and respect our children's individuality and needs. We should lead by example, be a role model for them, and give them enough love and support. We need to educate our children with love and tolerance, so that they can remain innocent and happy as they grow. At the same time, we must also learn to properly handle children's mistakes, give them appropriate guidance and education, and help them grow into responsible and good behavior Xi. Most importantly, we want to establish good communication with our children, so that they feel loved and cared for by us, and let them know that home is a safe, warm and supportive place.