Love once filled those green years. To this day, we still have a sunny afternoon, reminiscing about the years like water, reminiscing about that hurried and beautiful time.
The reality of marriage shattered many dreams. I once envisioned that you would walk all the way, all the way to the flowers, all the way gentle, walking, walking, and then the head was white.
Nowadays, love is like a dessert after a meal, and it is no longer so important. Even, for some middle-aged people who are too busy to take care of themselves, it is dispensable.
At a certain stage of life, the focus is different. used to be the supremacy of love, but now he is struggling for two coins and two pieces of silver. The edges and corners of the past have been smoothed out.
When people reach middle age, life is not a stormy affair for two people, especially most women, only to find that romance and the safety of children become insignificant after having children.
When we were still girls, we all swore that even if we got married and had children, we would not let ourselves lose ourselves and lose our youthful hearts.
However, people are not three-headed and six-armed after all. Some people can be delicate for a lifetime, but most people still "go with the flow", and it is good to be simple and clean.
I have experienced the youth of eating Hesse but never gaining weight, even if I can't eat a big meal the night before, my lower abdomen is still flat the next morning. So it's hard to accept that now, my metabolism is as slow as a snail.
I once saw a middle-aged married woman dragging her child, regardless of elegance. I used their puffy bodies to warn myself, wondering why they didn't do body management. Now, they are all relieved.
When the center of gravity of your life overwhelmingly moves in one direction, the rest becomes a foil. Compared to the peace and joy of a child, many things seem to be less important.
Of course, I have also seen too many women, after experiencing the initial lost time after giving birth, as the child grows, she is gradually finding herself.
In middle age, the children are growing up, the parents are getting older, and the family is spending more and more, so the husband and wife have to plan how not to be extravagant and wasteful, and how to earn more money, because there is a little money in hand, people have the confidence to live, and it will not be too difficult to move from middle age to old age. A little money in hand, in fact, is not the guarantee of the relationship between husband and wife, if the financial is always empty, then the husband and wife will inevitably quarrel because of the pressure of life.
When people reach middle age, we are busy all day long, neglecting to exercise, and sub-health conditions frequently appear. Middle-aged you and I often have low energy. In the past, I used to stay up late and be alive in the morning, but now I stay up late and am listless in the morning. In the past, it was necessary to run to go upstairs, but now, it is very tiring to climb a building.
When people reach middle age, there are old and young, and "the belly and back are enemy". What is begging is the well-being of parents, and the health of the elderly is the greatest wealth of a family.
I have seen too many old people, and when I was young, I lived a hard and dignified life, but when I was old and sick, I couldn't take care of myself, and my personality gradually became eccentric. There are also elderly people with Alzheimer's disease, who can easily drag a home. In a friend's house, both of them have their own careers and their children are well-behaved, but the military father, who was originally an iron-clad soldier, has become an "old child".
There is a person at home who accompanies and watches every day, often unreasonable, often angry, and even occasionally lost ......
The husband and wife are hesitating, arguing, and wiping down their feelings, but they have to rely on each other. In those busy days when the old man was there, the two of them had no time to take care of love and were not in the mood to take care of it.
In fact, when people reach middle age, it doesn't matter what they love or don't love, and what they don't love. As long as we are healthy, our children are sensible and motivated, and our family is safe, we have the best life!
I hope that every couple can go hand in hand, be humble and considerate to each other, run the family together, and taste life together!