In fact, life is not about you compromise, you back down, and I will give you a happy ending.
From the self-report of a 35-year-old guy:
My name is me, I am an ordinary accountant, with a salary of more than 30,000 yuan a month, and I usually do some part-time accounting jobs in other companies. And my wife, Wang Fang, is a housewife. We have a 10-year-old son.
One day, Wang Fang received a ** from her college classmates and invited her to attend an upcoming class reunion. She excitedly agreed, hung up the ** in a hurry, and began to prepare to go out.
I looked at her, and a trace of dissatisfaction rose in my heart: "You seem to have been attending parties a lot lately, what kind of party is this?"Wang Fang replied while putting on her shoes: "This is a party for the 10th anniversary of our graduation from university, which is very important." With that, she hurried out of the house.
I was left alone at home and started to take care of the housework. I do the laundry, clean the room, pick up my son from school, and take care of the work stuff.
By the time it was all over, it was already late at night. I lay in bed, exhausted, but the restlessness in my heart made it difficult for me to sleep. I kept checking my phone, looking forward to Wang Fang's news.
Wang Fang is very beautiful and energetic. And me?It's just an ordinary little accountant. I always look at myself in front of the mirror, trying to find out why Wang Fang fell in love with me in the first place.
But I couldn't find anything, all I saw was a medium-sized, average-looking self. I am always unsteady in my heart, for fear that one day Wang Fang will dump me because I am so ordinary that I can't be more ordinary.
2) This inferiority complex made me lose confidence in front of Wang Fang. I didn't dare to mention divorce because I was afraid of losing her and that I would never find a woman as good as her. I am afraid of being lonely, afraid of facing a future without Wang Fang.
So even though she doesn't have a job and likes to go shopping, I won't say anything. But these days, she often goes out to meetings. Every time Wang Fang dressed up to show the door, my heart hurt as if I had been pricked by a needle.
I always thought that there must be more handsome and attractive men than me in those parties. I'm afraid that Wang Fang will be fascinated by those men, and I'm afraid that she will forget to go home one night.
Finally, at three o'clock in the morning, Wang Fang returned home drunk. She laughed and told me that she had a great time today. The anger in my heart was suppressed, and I silently poured her a cup of hot water, and then continued to lie down.
The next day, I went to work as usual, while Wang Fang was still asleep. I sent my son to school and then to the company. Due to a bad mood the night before, I made a mistake at work and was severely criticized by my boss. My heart was filled with anger, but I endured it and kept smiling.
I felt my life suffocating more and more. When I go home every day, what I see is not a warm family, but a messy snack package and Wang Fang, who is addicted to her mobile phone.
She was always staring at her phone, and I began to wonder if Wang Fang had another man outside. I couldn't help but question why she was always staring at her phone, and I couldn't help but wonder who was attracting her. But Wang Fang didn't tell me.
One day, I accidentally saw the WeChat remark name "Dong Dashuai", and it dawned on me why she is so strange these days, "Dong Dashuai" is her first love, we are in the same class, the two of them are handsome men and beauties in school, unlike me, just an ordinary and ordinary person.
At that time, she was very sad because "Dong Dashuai" went abroad, and I had been with her during that time, so we got married later.
3) I know that when Wang Fang was chatting with "Dong Dashuai", I asked her if she had rekindled her first love. Wang Fang denied it, and the two of us quarreled over this matter, Wang Fang was very angry, and then took the clothes and went out directly.
After that, our relationship became more and more strained. She always told me not to disturb her, let alone the affairs of the house. I looked at her now, and I couldn't stand arguing with her a few times.
Finally one night, Wang Fang received a classmate's ** again, and her voice was full of excitement and anticipation. I silently watched her every move, but my heart was mixed.
When Wang Fang hurriedly prepared to leave, I couldn't help but ask, "Are you really going?"Don't you think the problem between us needs to be solved?Wang Fang didn't answer, but left the house in a hurry.
I sat alone on the couch with a lot of thoughts. I began to think back to the good times we had and how warm and considerate Wang Fang was back then.
But now, she seems to be a completely different person. My heart was filled with loss and pain, and I didn't know how to salvage our marriage.
4) At this moment, it suddenly began to rain heavily. A thought rose in my heart, and I decided to give Wang Fang a ** to see if she needed me to pick her up.
* After connecting, Wang Fang's voice sounded a little tired, but she rejected my kindness and said that she would come back on her own.
I hung up**, and the uneasiness in my heart grew stronger. I want to know what Wang Fang is doing. As the minutes ticked by, my mood became more and more agitated. I decided to go out and find Wang Fang to see what she was doing.
After the pouring rain, I came to the meeting place that Wang Fang said. I was surprised to find that this place was so close to the guesthouse.
I was standing on the corner with my eyes glued to the door of the restaurant. Finally, Wang Fang appeared, her steps were a little faltering, obviously she had drunk a lot.
But she didn't come out of the restaurant, but from the hotel, and she came out alone. I walked forward quickly and helped Wang Fang back to the car.
In the car, the atmosphere between the two was unusually silent. I asked, "Are you having fun tonight?"Wang Fang didn't answer, just looked at the phone quietly.
My heart was full of questions and puzzles, and in the end, I couldn't help but ask the doubts in my heart: "Are you meeting your first love?"Wang Fang's expression suddenly became agitated, and she asked me why I was always suspicious of her. The quarrel between the two became more and more intense.
The winter gods of hand-slapping**
"Until I filed for divorce, I just couldn't stand it.
Wang Fang angrily agreed to the divorce, she said that she had had enough of my suspicion and distrust, and the two of us quarreled in the car.
The rift between us is beyond repair. Our marriage, like the rain outside the window, will eventually stop.