After some women get married, they regard themselves as the mistress of the family, and they have to take care of all the big and small things in the family, and they have to be in charge, and some men have a very loud abacus, and give a part of their salary to the woman every month, so that the woman can take care of the food, drink and Lazar of the family, and the man doesn't care if he doesn't have much money, so that the woman can figure out his own way, and his salary is secretly saved by himself, or he can lend it to his parents and brothers, and he doesn't let his wife know at all.
Stupid women don't know how much a man's salary is, and stupidly thinks that a large part of a man's salary is handed over, tired and tired from morning to night, reluctant to eat, reluctant to wear, as everyone knows, men spend all day and wine outside, give money to other women to spend, spend money on their own families, just treat women as a free nanny!
Such a woman will not wake up until the last moment, live without self, all day long either take care of the elderly or take care of children and a lot of housework, busy and round, there is no time and space of her own, she thinks that her hard work and dedication men will see it in their eyes, will be good to her, but unfortunately she thinks wrong, the more such women men will not cherish.
thinks that this is what a woman deserves, and it is also what a woman should do, because he pays the living expenses every month, and the woman is the one who asks him for money with his palms up, so a woman has no dignity in front of him at all, and he can accuse, complain, and dislike women from above.
The poor woman didn't know it, and she was still looking for reasons in herself, thinking that she was not doing well, taking care of her in-laws' affairs, and she had to be strong in everything, and put herself in the position of the hostess, but she didn't know that everyone treated her as a wronged person and a fool, which was really sad!
Personally, I think it's best not to be strong about the affairs of the in-laws, as long as they do not infringe on their own interests or disrespect themselves, let the husband come forward to solve the affairs of the in-laws!If a woman likes to stand out in her mother-in-law's house, no matter how good you do, others will not read you a word of good, but will only treat you as a fool
For example, if you do 100 things, you have done the first 99 things very well, and people will not have a good opinion of you, thinking that it is what you should do, and you have not done a good job when you do the 100th thing, then you are a wicked person, a bad person, and a person who is not worthy of respect!
In the eyes of the in-laws, if you marry a person with a foreign surname, you should shut up and contribute money and efforts, and you can't have any complaints, if you express a little dissatisfaction, you will be attacked by the in-laws' family, treat you as a monster, and I can't wait to eat you and wipe you clean, and throw it away like a rag!Although the words are not good, they are not absolute, but relatively speaking.
I believe that most people are still kind-hearted, only a few in-laws really treat the daughter-in-law who marries in as inappropriate, and ask the daughter-in-law when they need to contribute money and efforts, and the family has interests, such as when there is a house or the demolition money to be shared, I wish to let the daughter-in-law divorce quickly, and leave the house early, and the family demolition money has no share in her, and when she needs someone to take the child, she says that the child is born by the daughter-in-law, what is the matter with their family, and when they want to divorce, they say that the grandson is their family, and the surname is their family, why should the daughter-in-law take it away?
In short, a woman is in her in-law's house, no matter what she says, how to do it, her in-laws will have something to say, the best way is to take care of your children, manage your own small family, do not participate in anything in your in-law's family, do not make decisions, do not express opinions, do not take responsibility for yourself, your in-laws' family is not your responsibility in the first place, why do you want to find trouble for yourself?