You don't need to go out of your way to please the other person
A good relationship must have a "sense of relaxation".
You don't need to be nervous, carry the burden of idols, and not allow yourself to make a little mistake;
The other party will not pretend to be in front of you, and can be honest with you.
In this relationship, you are sincere, in a state of giving to each other;
The other party will not pretend to be confused and is willing to "play straight cards" to you;
And you will not hide your true emotions and thoughts, and you will be able to communicate with each other seriously.
A loose relationship must be built on a sufficient sense of security and trust;
I'm not worried that you're leaving, and you don't have to worry about me leaving.
There will be contradictions, but they will not escalate
Any couple, husband and wife, after the hot love period has passed, will enter the flat period;
This is followed by a period of contradictions.
There will be quarrels, quarrels, and contradictions;
Different views on one thing will lead to differences in Xi.
These are all normal things.
In this world, no two leaves are exactly the same, and no two people are exactly the same.
Good feelings are adapting and running-in.
It's okay to have contradictions, but we won't let them go;
It's okay to quarrel, after a quarrel, they will establish communication with each other and solve the problem.
Just take the facts, and will not turn over old accounts, let alone rise to personality attacks.
When you meet the right person, there is plenty of "emotional value".
In other words: emotional value is an indispensable trait for maintaining feelings.
You love each other and are able to catch all the "negativity" of the other person;
He is equally happy when he sees you happy;
Seeing you sad, anxious, sad, he will come to comfort you and hug you.
Two people who really love each other are like "redeeming each other" together;
When you're about to hit rock bottom, he grabs you
When he is silent in a state of negativity, negativity, internal friction, you save him again.
Good relationships have always been like this:
Being able to provide sufficient emotional value to each other is love, encouragement, positive companionship and recognition.
Be able to feel "loved and loved".
What does it feel like to love someone?
When I think of each other, I can't help but smile on my face;
You start looking forward to it before you even meet the other person;
As soon as you see each other, your whole person is happy and satisfied.
What you think and behave in your heart is the most direct reflection of your emotions.
What does it feel like to be loved?
With each other, you feel secure and you feel grounded;
You've envisioned a good future with them more than once;
I look forward to living a marriage and a longer life.
And when making every life plan and next goal, they will subconsciously include each other.
Love is praise and appreciation
When you meet the right person, you are willing to appreciate each other from the bottom of your heart.
Men will appreciate a woman's appearance, figure, dress, and her inner beauty;
Women will praise the man's efforts, character, character, pattern, and show a look of adoration.
In fact, those good feelings are a bit "exaggerated".
I love you, so in my eyes you are the best, perfect".
You love me too, so my shortcomings have become cute in your eyes. ”
Able to appreciate each other and be good at discovering the good in each other;
Such feelings are often not bad.
Conversely, what does a bad relationship look like?
Always accusing, mocking, jealous;If you are unhappy, don't think about the other party.
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