Jin Mansion is a platform for Xiao Lian, giving her the opportunity to come into contact with many different people and things, so as to improve her knowledge and vision. In the Jin family's social circle, in addition to Mrs. Jin, the eldest and youngest grandmother Wu Peifang is the most respected person. Xiao Lian often followed Wu Peifang's side, witnessed many social occasions, and accumulated rich experience. This allowed her not only not to feel scared and uncomfortable when facing the ladies of the Golden Mansion, but also to be able to deal with it easily. From this point of view, Xiao Lian's bravery and independence are one of the important reasons why she can marry well.
Different from the restrictions and circumstances of ordinary maids, Xiao Lian gradually stepped out of her comfort zone and broadened her horizons by following Wu Peifang's teachings. She has learned how to deal with different social situations, how to interact with people, and how to talk and behave. Before she knew it, she had mastered a unique set of social intelligence, which made her no longer feel cramped and uncomfortable in front of the ladies of the Golden Mansion, but was able to get along with them as equals. Her self-confidence and calmness have won her the respect and recognition of Jinfu people, and also for herMarriageThe seeds of success were planted.
Coming from a rural area myself, I know how important it is for children from poor families to broaden their horizons. The circumstances in which we come from determine the lack of information and knowledge to which we are exposed. But we can broaden our horizons and reconstruct ourselves by reading, communicating, and experiencing the worldWorldview。As Dong Yuhui said: "Reading a wide range of books, listening to the words of the audience, and experiencing the world", these experiences and the accumulation of knowledge help us form our own unique philosophical outlook and knowledge structure, which is also what we say".Three views"**. Only when we have a rich vision and a broad knowledge reserve can we better cope with the challenges of life and live this life well, and at the same time we can gain inner peace and freedom from the world.
Broadening horizons is really important for children from poor families. Because poverty limits their access to and understanding of the outside world, they are confined to their own environment. And when they break through this restriction in various ways and get in touch with the wider world, their horizons will also expand. They can enrich their knowledge and insight by reading books, being exposed to people from different backgrounds, and experiencing various things firsthand. This wealth of experience and knowledge will give them new thinking and knowledge. Therefore, for children from poor families, broadening their horizons is not only an opportunity, but also an inevitable choice.
When Xiao Lian wrote a letter to say goodbye to the Jin Mansion, she expressed her deep gratitude to the Jin Mansion and Wu Peifang. She realized that she was fortunate to stand on this platform, and through the teachings of Jin Fu and Wu Peifang, she not only increased her knowledge, but also reconstructed herselfThree views。However, although Xiao Lian was grateful to Jin Fu and Wu Peifang, Jin Fengju expressed her affection for her, and Wu Peifang offered to find one for herMarriageobject, she made a choice. She knew that she was already a slave to money, and she didn't want to be any moreMarriageunder the slave. This reflects Xiao Ren's independent and principled side.
Xiao Lian's persistence and independence are one of the important reasons why she can marry well. She understands her own values and principles, and she does not want to be retained by the Golden Mansion orMarriageBondage. She chose to run away for love because this is an opportunity, an unknown opportunity, she is afraid of the unknown, but she also knows that there is both danger and hope in the unknown. She is willing to take risks in pursuit of the happiness and freedom she truly wants. This bravery and persistence made herMarriageFinally become happy.
A family of gold powderThrough the platform of Jinfu, Xiao Lian broadened her horizons and knowledge, and gradually cultivated her ownThree viewsand values. She can stick to her principles and not be mindful in the face of the teasing of the ladies of the Golden Mansion. Her independence and bravery allowed her to marry well and eventually achieve her own happiness and freedom. This gives us a reflection that by broadening our horizons and sticking to our principles, we can pursue the happiness we truly want in our lives.