Jin Feng cried loudly, Pei Fang held a fuhua, it was originally a peaceful and harmonious scene, but unexpectedly, a sudden evening incense made the entire Jin Mansion fall into chaos.
At that time, Pei Fang seemed innocent and elegant, and the beautiful talk of the two talented and beautiful women, under the arrangement of parents and matchmakers, had already decided their lives according to the respective preferences of young men and women. Who knew that there were unforeseen circumstances in the sky, and a fire burned them, and not even a single figure was left. Fortunately, the Wu family's family background was very harmonious, and Jin Quan and his wife only hid a few words of dissatisfaction from their son, so they prepared for the marriage of their eldest son with great fanfare.
However, this bride was in the limelight not long after she first started, and Feng Ju couldn't resist the urge to steal food. No, she began to "look for flowers and willows" again. First of all, it was his wife's dowry maid Xiao Pian, and then the Qinglou woman's evening fragrance, mixed with many warblers and Yanyan in the middle, Pei Fang really couldn't understand how Jin Fengju, who had sworn by her in the mountains and seas, became Chu Liuxiang, who was flirtatious everywhere?
Similar to Jia Lian in "Dream of Red Mansions", Feng Ju also mastered a secret strategy, he took his true love after marriage as an outer room, and secretly placed her in a small mansion outside the mansion to enjoy happy times with others.
In this world, how can there be an impermeable wall?Even though the Kim family is a big mansion and a deep courtyard, all kinds of rumors and rumors are still able to spread around. In this case, his relationship with his wife is getting deeper and deeper. Feng Ju carried out a series of maneuvers between his wife and concubine, but it eventually led to the separation of his wife and the escape of the beautiful concubine with money.
In the final analysis, there is no innocent person in this farce that happened in the room of the Kim family. In this marriage, are they struggling or giving up?Whether struggling or giving up, when everyone causes harm to this marriage, they inadvertently reveal the hidden facts within.
Jin Fengju believes that the tenderness of married people is like flowing water, which may eventually become irreparable.
The family business of the Jin family is grand, from the top to the grassroots, from the inside to the outside, the atmosphere of luxury and pleasure is everywhere, and the eldest son of the prime minister's family will never stay out of it
With just a few words of flattery, Feng Ju can spend a lot of money on his group of bad friendsWhen others urged her twice, Feng Ju was able to immerse herself in all kinds of emotions and sounds.
Feng Jusi didn't think that a marriage contract could separate him from social situations. Perhaps similar to the goal pursued by Yanxi, he chose to marry a wife and a virtuous man in the first place, just to prevent others from interfering in his life.
As for my wife, the lady who always impressed me before marriage seems to have become as monotonous as Shimizu. When the husband is out socializing, the wife often hides like a little princess. What's even more troublesome is that when she returned home to rest after finishing the entertainment, Pei Fang not only did not come forward to care and greet her, but instead spoke harshly and jealously, which was really upsetting.
Although Xiao Lian is under her nose, she is witty and energetic, which is completely to her liking;But she was not born, but she liked to cry since she was a child, and when she saw others crying, there would be a warm current in her heart, just like that flower. In that alley, the evening fragrance girl always behaved very submissively, and every tear and cry of her was enough to make Feng Ju's heart twist.
Ironically, while Fengju and Wanxiang were immersed in deep emotions, Peifang was lonely in the long night, bearing the pain of pregnancy and recalling a deeper loneliness. This woman is a woman, a woman. This man dedicated all his tenderness and tens of thousands of fortunes to his new love, and he was not even willing to say a word of greeting to his original partner and wife.
The gentleness of a married man may eventually become irreparable.
Before the good days began to be enjoyed, Feng Ju was busy under triple pressure: first, his wife asked for divorce and abortion, second, his parents ordered him to go home and think about it, and finally he even wanted to fight for a good position with true love that understood people's hearts.
Feng Ju couldn't stand the disturbance of the outside world, so he chose to hide in the attic where he studied when he was a child, immersed in a brief period of tranquility. She didn't know how she came up with it, but she always felt that her father was a very good person, and he could arrange everything in order and arrange himself in a comfortable environment. I used to envy my father for having three wives and concubines, but now I really appreciate the pain of polygamy. He was the only man in the family, and his fate was well arranged in this small room. On the one hand, it involves the glory of the family and the family, and on the other hand, he can't give up his beauty and achievements, everyone forces him to make a choice, but everyone is unwilling to compromise.
Many people loudly proclaim that they have found true love after getting married, but they don't realize that it's just a mix of hormones and freshness. Actually, each of us has had such a time. As Feng Ju shows, when he first saw the evening incense in the dim alley, those sad eyes made him lose his calm judgment.
But he didn't expect that because he didn't go to Shanghai on a business trip, this well-known Xie Yuhua would empty all the small mansions and elope with others at night. He wanted to tell his mother the news and let her know that he would be doing well outside the world. What is ironic is that Feng Ju battled wits and courage with his parents and wife in his busy days, but in the end he suffered the fate of being cuckolded by his aunt's wife.
Marriage is not only a protection of the legal relationship, it is also a joint obligation of both spouses. The happiness of a marriage depends on whether both parties truly love each other. No matter how much true love after marriage fits into one's soul, it doesn't put much effort into the trivial matters at home. At that point, if everything collapses, those beloved third parties may run the fastest.
Wu Peifang believes that going home is actually a means to deceive herself and others.
A woman's sense of smell is inherently acute, especially when dealing with husband-related issues.
Pei Fang was not completely unaware of Feng Ju's intentions to please Xiao, but in that era, although marriage emphasized freedom and equality, it was ultimately unable to transcend the heavy social structure of patriarchy and patriarchy. Therefore, she can only be a little daughter-in-law who is undervalued in this society. What's more, to be the three wives and concubines of the old man"Jewel in front", as the eldest son, Jin Fengju naturally showed a similar demeanor.
If a husband cheats during pregnancy, even the most fragile wife will feel heartache, not to mention that Wu Peifang is confident enough to choose a divorce. She said that after the divorce, she can do housework at home with peace of mind, take care of her children and husband. However, this sentence"Divorce"In fact, it was just an excuse to threaten her husband to come home. On the road to divorce, women have had such and such helplessness and hesitation, but this does not affect her to choose the right direction. "Just go home"Behind these four words, there are countless tears shed by women in the middle of the night. They may have angrily vowed to cut it all off, or they may have decided to quit silently, but when the man was a little weak, they used"Forget it"This sentence simply puts an end to past grievances.
Over the past few months, the constant vitriolic rhetoric and prolonged indifference have finally made Pei Fang feel that she can no longer bear it. At the instigation of Yufen, the two staged an empty city plan, bluntly saying that Peifang was going to the hospital for an abortion, which made Feng Ju very anxious.
Feng Ju, who had disappeared for a long time, suddenly returned home, and before he could say sweet words, he was pushed hard by Pei Fang, causing his hand to be cut. "Look at him, why is he so miserable!When Pei Fang saw her husband hurt, she desperately searched for a bandage to stop the bleeding, leaving no time to care about her long-standing grievances.
It's ironic that an item that was originally prepared to prevent an unaccompanied birth was rashly wrapped around a not-so-serious wound on her husband's body. His wife's body is his biggest concern. At this particular moment, whether it is emotional betrayal or pregnancy exhaustion, they are more critical than the health of the lover.
Although Feng Ju is a witty and lustful Jia Lian, Pei Fang is not the kind of ruthless Wang Xifeng. She is an assertive and decisive woman, but there is another personality hidden in her - vanity and selfishness. She does not have the ability to personally participate in the activity of tearing evening incense, nor is she qualified to expect her mother-in-law to stand on her side and bring justice to her. With just a hint of sourness, she misses her husband coming home and keeps pushing her life to a dead end.
As everyone expected, Pei Fang silently agreed to Fengju's plan to restore reconciliation as before. In her opinion, he should be a good husband, not a bad husband. In this relationship, she is the one who is the most hurt, but the one who is the least deserving of forgiveness. She knew she was a woman, not a man. She firmly believes that it is not a big problem for a man to have three wives and four concubines, and as long as he is willing to go home, it means that he still has a place in his heart.
Pei Fang never expected that a century later, the strict rules of infidelity would touch the depths of her heart: infidelity was only zero or countless times.
When Feng Ju first tries to seduce Xiao Lian, Pei Fang only mentions that her girl is very beautiful and inadvertently attracts a young and energetic husband;She also said that her husband had a bad temperament, and that she had to stay with him and wait until he died. After that, Feng Ju chose Wanxiang, who was better than himself, as his outer room, and Pei Fang realized that betrayal was just a character of her husband.
Marriage is like a game of equal strength, and excessive self-restraint and concession can lead to more tension in the relationship. If you want to marry someone you like, you must maintain gentleness and tolerance in your marriage. Some people just want to maintain the appearance of happiness through superficial peace, but they don't realize that such self-deception is actually the greatest torture for two people.
Evening Fragrance: Love bought with money will never last long.
Wanxiang's first encounter with Fengju occurred on an ordinary night when she first stepped into the industry. The little girl, who was only fifteen or sixteen years old, still showed a shy and immature temperament when she saw the elegant Uncle Jin.
Frankly speaking, Wanxiang's appearance is not outstanding, but it is her pitiful appearance that Xi puts Uncle Jin, who is accustomed to seeing all life from God's point of view, in a difficult situation.
First of all, he booked two rooms for Wanxiang at the Green Locust Hotel, and even invited the bustard to stay with himLater, he married a woman back. In order to allow this lonely woman to follow her with peace of mind, they ransomed her life with two thousand oceans;It's in this hut again, let her be a little cook, cook herself a pot of rice to eat, and drag her out of the kitchen. Eventually, she made a home in her bedroom. Eventually, she chooses a new place to live and helps her beloved become the mistress of the home.
Compared to the various emotions in true love, one's own expenses are only a small partEven if it's a private account, it has to be counted. If private funds are insufficient, then use public funds to make up for it, and squandering money is just a manifestation of the daily life of the Jin family.
Those colorful items are not the currency used for trading, but Fengju's deep affection for the evening fragrance. This sincere love, which was affectionately entrusted by Feng Ju, was just a transaction of money and lust in the final analysis.
Compared with Pei Fang's steadiness, Wanxiang's active personality can attract Feng Ju's attention more. She is a very aura girl. However, the innocence and innocence shown by this girl also brought endless troubles to Fengju.
The conflict between the two originated from a theatrical viewing. She was wearing a plain long dress, combing her short hair, and a bright and shy smile on her face, making it difficult to associate the woman in front of her with an "ugly duckling". In order to please Wanxiang, Feng Ju happily went to the ** drama with his true love, but he didn't expect to meet Pei Fang far away. In order to avoid an embarrassing atmosphere, Feng Ju returned with Wanxiang depressed, but this series of actions was finally seen by Wanxiang.
When Wanxiang first stepped into the rivers and lakes, she was initially just greedy for money, but under Uncle Jin's sweet words, she gradually thought that Fengju was a good person who could accompany her for the rest of her life. But he sold her to a poor family in the name of a woman, and sold his body to others. The love she cherishes includes helping her get out of her lowly status, allowing her to enter a wealthy family, and the upper class life created with a lot of money. But she didn't understand that her love didn't make him happy. It's not that she can't understand Feng Ju's helplessness, but she can't stand this man who has always claimed to love her, so she gradually loses time to accompany her.
Many young women have been like Evening Fragrance, lost in the ** of material desires, and are reluctant to turn back even if they cross the boundaries of morality. What do women need most in the face of money?For adults, the lack of funds does make it difficult for them to move, but they always stick to legitimate means and ** in their pursuit of wealth, rather than engaging in improper behavior on the grounds of love.
Feng Ju's deep affection for evening incense is actually to give her money. She began an act of revenge against him by running away with the money. However, when Fengju can't afford the family's expenses, Wanxiang feels that the man may no longer have love for her. Considering the actual situation, running away with the money became her only means of self-protection.
You have to understand that Wanxiang didn't have much good luck to consume in her previous life, but after meeting Fengju, she chose to consume with revenge. Her marriage is maintained by money, and her love is also paid for by money. In the past, a hundred dollars was a lot of wealth for her, but now, she only needs two hundred dollars, and even breathing has become stress-free. She said she loved money, but not for it but for herself. A romance like Evening Fragrance, which is built on wealth, is just to please those who are rich.
A good marriage requires money, but it must not be limited to money. Love is a beautiful mystery. Money does not represent true love, it is just a means to show love. Many people clearly mark love from the beginning, but they lose their true love.
mentioned at the end of the article: The farce of the Jin family's room actually reflects the real life of many people.
In the complex castle of marriage, some people feel regret, some people feel happy, some people suffer pain, and some people feel joy. Marriage is a complex psychological phenomenon. However, when faced with a broken marriage, no innocent person can escape the responsibilities that he or she bears.
At the end of the day, everyone is weighing their own gains and losses, and everyone aspires to be in control of their marriage. Everyone wants to have a love of their own and a family of their own. But in fact, marriage is more like a journey of two people through storms together, not determined by the hegemony of one person, nor the peaceful coexistence between three people.
That's it.