The mother cried about the experience of accompanying the student
If I could choose again, I would never be an escort", a mother's cry, please parents ponder.
The college entrance examination is extremely important for all students and is a rare opportunity to change their fate. The third year of secondary school is particularly crucial, and as long as you work hard to Xi during this period, you can expect to achieve remarkable results.
In order to ensure that their children can study Xi seriously in the final year, some parents even give up their jobs and choose"Accompaniment"。But is such a decision really necessary?Some parents regret their decision to accompany them in the first place.
If I could choose again, I would never choose to accompany the reader"。For example, Ms. Wang's family lives in a rural area, and her family is not very supportive. However, her son has always been very diligent and has hardly attended any tutoring classes, but he has achieved excellent results in the high school entrance examination and has been successfully admitted to a key middle school in the city, which makes her proud.
At first, Ms. Wang thought that her son would be able to maintain excellent grades in high school. However, the reality disappointed her, because the gap between her son and his classmates in the city was getting bigger and bigger. In one of the midterm exams, her son even took third place.
Faced with this situation, the son was also very anxious and called his mother **. He told his mother that many of his classmates' parents had come to accompany him, and he also wanted his mother to accompany him, and he didn't want to live in a dormitory, hoping to improve his Xi grades in this way.
Mrs. Wang did not hesitate when she heard this proposal, because her son has always been very enterprising, and as a mother, she does not want to be an obstacle to her son's growth. At that time, Ms. Wang was still doing odd jobs outside, but she made up her mind, quit her job, rented a small house near her son's school, and started"Follow life"。However, this move gave her son a start"Go downhill"。
During her time as a student companion, Ms. Wang felt that her only task was to make her son eat and drink well. She prepares a variety of delicacies for her son every day, and in order not to stress him, she hardly asks him about his class schedule and Xi. It is this misconception that makes your son become"Unscrupulous"。
The school stipulates that day students leave school at 8:30. The son told Mr. Wang that the teacher asked for a late self-Xi, so he went home at 9:30. In fact, the school did not have such a rule, and Ms. Wang was kept in the dark.
One evening, when the weather was bad, Ms. Wang went to pick up her son at the school gate with an umbrella. However, the doorman told her that the students had already left school that day. This confused Ms. Wang, who had been thinking about it on the way home. Suddenly, she finds her son saying goodbye to a woman in the community, and the two are reluctant.
Under the mother's questioning, the son admitted the facts. After all, he and the woman have known each other for a long time, and they have already started a relationship. Due to the strict rules of Chavez High School, he couldn't meet his girlfriend, so he to"Learn Xi well"As an excuse, let my mother come to learn Xi together, but in fact, it is to have the opportunity to meet.
Ms. Wang was both angry and remorseful. She complained:"If I could choose again, I would never be a companion again. I should have believed that the school was capable of educating my son well, and it was my actions that hurt him"。
This incident has sparked a deep reflection on the purpose of counselling among parents. Many people are indignant at Ms. Wang's personal experience, believing that her son obviously does not know enough about his mother's hardships, a bit like in"Occupy"Mother's"Cheap"。
Some netizens also pointed out that mothers also have certain responsibilities during the period of accompanying students, how can they ignore the children's work and rest time?"Accompanying children is more than just companionship. We should not only care about their lives, but also about their Xi and psychology. Failure to do so would be a failure to fulfill the mother's responsibilities.
We don't discuss responsibility, but we want to give parents some serious food for thought:"Accompaniment"What does it really mean?Why should you choose to accompany the reader?
Some parents choose to accompany their children because they think the dormitory environment is not good and want their children to enjoy a more comfortable living environment. More parents choose to accompany their Xi children to study, not to pursue material satisfaction, but to accompany their children. That's the real thing"Accompaniment"。
After the child enters secondary school, especially in the final year, the parents are present"Accompaniment"There are a few important aspects that should be taken into account. The first thing that can be determined is that in the high school years, especially in the final year, the parents'"Accompaniment"It is very necessary. High school is very crucial, and having a good living environment can make children more focused on their academic Xi and have a positive effect on improving their grades.
During the follow-up process, parents should strengthen communication with the class teacher. The Xi in secondary school is relatively boring, and children will lose interest in learning Xi. The class teacher understands the student's learning Xi situation and gives feedback to the parents in a timely manner, and the parents can help their children maintain high enthusiasm for learning and Xi through psychological counseling, and do not relax their vigilance.
In addition, parents should pay attention"Logistics"Safeguard the work. Make sure to prepare meals on time every day, prepare school Xi supplies in advance, and wash your child's clothes on time. This will help your child save time and allow them to concentrate on their Xi.
In addition, parents should often take their children to relax. Although academics are very important, we should also pay attention to the combination of work and rest, and do not put too much psychological pressure on children.
Finally, I would like to emphasize that more and more parents are choosing"Accompaniment"own children. If conditions allow, this is indeed a good choice. To be clear, spending time with your child doesn't just mean spending time with them, but also paying attention to their Xi and mental state.
For students, they should not fail their parents' hard work. When parents come to accompany the students, students should focus more on the Xi and avoid doing things that are not related to the Xi of school, so as not to disappoint and worry their parents. In this way, parents can be kept enthusiastic and the companionship process more rewarding.
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