This article is based on the original and may differ from the TV series.
After Zhou Bingyi's death, Dongmei quickly chose to remarry. Her past behavior has made many people feel unacceptable.
Zhou Bingyi is a very kind person, he has put in great efforts and efforts for the common people, but unfortunately, he suffered from stomach cancer and died early. I feel very sorry for his death, he was a good man with a lot of talent, and his deeds are also very touching. Hao Dongmei, as a wife, quickly remarried after Bingyi's death, which is really unacceptable.
However, Dongmei's remarriage was actually specially ordered by Bingyi at the last moment of his life.
Before Zhou Bingyi died, he left three last words.
First of all: I hope Zhou Rong and Bingkun can treat Cai Xiaoguang and Zheng Juan well.
Our parents and these three children, in this life, the greatest happiness is to be partners with good men and good women. No, I've only been married to my husband's wife for more than a year, and I've been fascinated by the good men and women of both of us. This deep affection between husband and wife is second only to the kindness of parents. In this process, the two of you are the happiest. The two of you should have a future of gratitude to Xiaoguang and Zheng Juan.
Second: after his death, he did not buy a cemetery. If someone attacks, they should not defend themselves and should not defend themselves.
After my death, there was no need to buy a cemetery, just to place my ashes in my parents' graves. If someone says I'm crazy, give him an egg and let him eat it himself. If someone comments or attacks me, they should definitely not defend themselves and should not defend themselves.
The third suggestion is to let Dongmei remarry.
Many people don't understand why Zhou Bingyi did this, and Dongmei really remarried after his death.
In fact, the fact that Bingyi asked Dongmei to remarry was hidden in Dongmei's mother's last words and his second last words.
Understand the uniqueness of these "two last words", and you can understand why he insisted on letting Dongmei remarry.
1. Dongmei's mother's careful cultivation and guidance of Zhou Bingyi made Zhou Bingyi forever remembered.
In the original work, Zhou Bingyi has an inseparable relationship with Dongmei's mother from the beginning of his officialdom career to the subsequent gradual promotion.
He was an outstanding student at Peking University, and after getting married, he moved to Dongmei's home, where he often chatted with Dongmei's mother and shared family trivia.
In fact, Dongmei's mother's recommendation to the Organization Department of the Municipal Party Committee is also an important reason why he really entered the officialdom.
Dongmei's mother enjoys a very high voice and prestige in the provincial party committee, so she naturally does not dare to slack off in her recommendation and organization work. Therefore, it was decided to transfer Zhou Bingyi to the arsenal and take up the post of party secretary.
Zhou Bingyi did not disappoint his mother-in-law, he crossed the ocean to the Soviet Union to buy abandoned **, and successfully saved the life of the arsenal.
When he first arrived at the arsenal, the workers were on strike and he was looking for ways to mediate. He said that the workers did not understand, so he pulled the workers into the workshop and let them do their own work, and then went back with their wages to receive them. He intended to buy coal for the old workers to heat their homes, but he had neither the funds nor the place to buy them. He thought, if he sold the coal, he would be able to solve the problem, right?Because in that period, the ** of coal was determined based on indicators.
When he was in trouble, it was Dongmei's mother who provided pension funds to support him, and used Dongmei's father and comrades-in-arms to buy high-quality coal for him.
It was in this way that Zhou Bingyi gained a solid position in the military factory and began far-reaching reforms.
Because of his outstanding performance in the military factory, he was quickly transferred to the position of mayor and was elected several times in a row.
Without Dongmei's mother's recommendation, it would be impossible for him to enter the military factory. Because she is one of the most experienced and capable people in this factory. Without her assistance, he couldn't have performed so well, let alone promoted so quickly.
Although Zhou Bingyi is very talented, Dongmei's mother's influence has really helped him a lot. Zhou Bingyi knows this very well. He is a man of gratitude. He always remembers the assistance given to him by his mother-in-law.
Especially in the case of Arya, the tolerance she showed to his men made him forever remember.
2 Dongmei's mother's magnanimity to the Olya incident is an incomparable gift to Zhou Bingyi.
In the TV series, it is described that Zhou Bingyi had an intimate hug with Olya in a drunken state. But is this true?When the reporter captured this scene, Dongmei's mother held a newspaper and questioned him, and at the end sternly warned him, "No misfire is allowed in the process of wiping the gun!."”
In the original work, Zhou Bingyi and Olya kissed affectionately in front of everyone.
A married man kissing a woman affectionately in front of everyone is not something that drunkenness can justify.
Viewed from one side, his behavior with a foreign woman does show his betrayal of his wife.
Zhou Bingyi saw ** and a detailed description in the newspaper, which made him completely unable to defend himself. "That's his a**!That ** is clear enough to show everything.
What kind of person is Dongmei's mother?But now she is an ordinary journalist. At the age of nineteen, she was highly regarded by the generals, known as a clever ghost, and a veteran revolutionary soldier with a wealth of experience. When her eyes fell on the newspaper, her heart immediately understood the truth of the matter.
But how did she deal with that?
She summoned Zhou Bingyi into the room and described the incident in a sharp tone. Further strict warnings were issued. Eventually, he demanded that Zhou Bingyi must show all of his future contact information with Olya. In this way, when Dongmei asks questions in the future, she will provide cover for Bingyi.
More importantly, if someone uses this opportunity to attack Zhou Bingyi, she is also willing to be his witness.
Dongmei's mother not only issued a warning to her son-in-law, but also took measures to prevent him from rekindling his old relationship with Olya, and provided valuable advice for Zhou Bingyi's career.
Obviously, she took such an action out of consideration for Dongmei in the end. She knows her daughter's deep love for Bingyi and has a deeper understanding of Bingyi's character, so she chooses to give him a chance to show herself. As long as she took the slightest action at that time, Zhou Bingyi's political path could encounter a devastating blow.
The veteran revolutionary, faced with his son-in-law's infidelity to his daughter, chose the way to inflict the least harm on his daughter.
In this incident, her kindness to Zhou Bingyi was vividly displayed. Her tolerance made him feel an indescribable sense of happiness. Zhou Bingyi is a very intelligent person, and he knows that his mother-in-law's tolerance for him is a great gift. Since then, there has been no similar conflict between him and Dongmei.
3 Dongmei's mother gave up her old face in order to save Bingkun at the last moment of her life, which is also a special support for the Zhou family.
At the last moment of her life, Dongmei's mother asked the organization department to release Bingkun early.
At that moment, she knew that her life was coming to an end, so when she faced her boss, who had come to visit her, she said this:
My husband and I, we dare not think that we have made any contribution to the party and the people, is there always hard work?Until the day I was ** by the party, my husband was loyal to the party, right?I haven't complained about my husband being ** killed, have I?I only have one daughter and only one son-in-law, and my son-in-law is hardly able to progress politically through my hard pull, right?As a party member, my daughter didn't cause trouble to the party, right?I knew I couldn't cross this hurdle, and was someone like me qualified to make a request to an organization that wasn't personally personal?
She tactfully expressed that she and her husband are both people who have contributed to the country. In the last moments of her life, her only wish was not for herself or her daughter, but for her son-in-law Zhou Bingyi's younger brother Bingkun to intercede with him.
Immediately afterward, she elaborated on why she pleaded with Bingkun.
If it weren't for the influence of the Cultural Revolution, she might not have married an ordinary worker's home, nor would it be a simple worker's home. But considering that her only daughter and son have been married, the relationship between them is still deep. As a mother, even if you feel regret, you can't forcibly separate them.
She was worried that her in-laws would come to her because of her troubles. She had never seen the door of her in-laws, and she had never seen her in-laws and mother-in-law before her death. As for the son-in-law's younger brother, she has never seen it either. Now that she is also dying, she suddenly wants to do her best to prove that she is still human. ”
She is a senior party member who adheres to her principles, and because she is worried that the Zhou family will come to her to deal with affairs, she has not entered the door of the Zhou family for many years. Her life is coming to an end, and she feels deeply guilty about the Zhou family, so she hopes to make some contributions to the Zhou family.
Why does she want to serve the Zhou family?Why would she do it?The final goal is still out of consideration for her daughter Dongmei. Parents have a deep love for their children and always have a long-term plan. Everything Dongmei's mother did seemed to be for Bingkun on the surface, but from a deeper perspective, she was actually trying to warm her son-in-law Zhou Bingyi's heart.
As the eldest son of the Zhou family, Bingyi has a high degree of attention to family members. She puts this favor at the forefront of her family life, and she believes that it is an education of love that makes people stronger, braver, and more compassionate.
Dongmei's mother understands all this, so the purpose of her rescue Bingkun is to give Bingyi a heavy favor. And this deep affection is actually her deep trust to her biological daughter.
She knew that her children were all working in other places, so in order to leave a concern for her daughter, she took out all the money in the family. For Dongmei, the old man has put in a lot of effort and effort. The reason why she did these behaviors is that Bingyi also understands the deep-seated reasons behind them.
That is to hope that he can treat Dongmei well. At the most important time of his life, he was leaving. Make sure that Dongmei's old age is full of happiness. This also reveals the fact that Bingyi wants Dongmei to remarry in his will.
4 Bingyi suggested that Dongmei remarry, which was not only an explanation to the old lady, but also a guarantee for his wife.
Zhou Bingyi has always had a deep sense of gratitude to his mother-in-law.
In his many years of married life with Dongmei, except for the role of Olya, there have been no more scandals.
His deep affection for Dongmei is well known.
In addition to the deep conjugal affection between him and his wife, the actions of the old lady should also have a preventive effect in his heart.
He has many people who don't understand why he would let Dongmei remarry after his death. In fact, Zhou Bingyi did this to explain things to his mother-in-law and protect Dongmei.
First of all, at the last moment of her life, her mother-in-law expressed her deep affection to Bingkun for the next year, hoping that the Zhou family could reunite a year earlier. Zhou Bingyi knows the depth of this kindness.
The old lady was resilient throughout her life, and although she never turned to the organization for personal reasons, in the last moments of her life, she pleaded for forgiveness for Bingkun. Her purpose is to make Bingyi owe this favor and treat her only daughter well.
Bingyi knew the old lady's inner thoughts, and he did his best to make it happen.
At the end of his life, he specifically proposed to let Dongmei remarry, and there were several thoughtful reasons behind this.
1 Dongmei's family did not have any relatives, Dongmei had no children, and after his death, Dongmei lived a lonely and helpless life alone.
Although Zhou Rong and Bingkun may visit this sister-in-law for the sake of his face, each family has its own unique affairs, and relying on them alone makes it difficult to alleviate Dongmei's loneliness and loneliness.
2 In the original work, Dongmei's personality becomes irritable in the second half of the story, and she often says vulgar things. In the past, Dongmei was a lady, but after experiencing a huge transformation in her life, she is significantly different from her previous image. In her later years, Zhou Bingyi had to accommodate her and make sure she wouldn't get angry for no reason.
From the current point of view, Dongmei may have had mild personality emotional problems during that period, manifested by bipolar disorder. He is a very laughing person, and when he laughs, he looks like a child laughing, which is very cute. Wise Bingyi worries that Dongmei's condition may deteriorate after his death, and he thinks that having someone to accompany Dongmei will make her condition better.
The third factor is closely related to the second last words he left behind.
He clearly warned Bingkun and Zhou Rong that if someone commented or attacked him, he should not defend himself, let alone hold a grudge for injustice.
Why did he express it like that?
In Zhou Bingyi's life, his career has experienced countless ups and downs, and each time he has inevitably been criticized and attacked by others. He has also had his own life trajectory, but it is the result of "me" working with others, not because of personal relationships.
Human nature is like this, when you are in a high position, you have more friends;And when you're in a slump, the number of villains increases.
When Zhou Bingyi was transferred from the military factory to the mayor, everyone was full of joy and excitement about him. But he stayed there for less than two months before he was branded a rightist. When he was belittled, everyone chased after him and scolded him so loudly that they even threw rotten eggs into his home.
During that period, Dongmei needed to be accompanied every time she went out.
Bingyi knew all of this well, and he knew that after his death, he would face more blows. He knew that he was a person with a conscience, but he didn't want to be such a person without a conscience. By that time, Dongmei's situation had become worrying.
Therefore, he decided to let Dongmei marry again, which is not only a kind of trust to his mother-in-law, but also shows his deep care for the wife with whom he has spent his life.
In the final analysis, Dongmei's mother and Bingyi are actually the same type of people. In her opinion, there is nothing wrong with that. Dongmei's mother was worried that the Zhou family was looking for her to do something, and she did not become an in-law for 20 consecutive years. However, before she was about to leave, she used her and her husband's life's hard work and dedication to win Bingkun a year of free life.
Although Bingyi did not seem to contribute much to the Zhou family on the surface, he always remembered his old father's last words. Although he expected to retire peacefully in Beijing, he proposed to be transferred back to Jichun a year before his retirement, in order to fulfill his father's last wish and ensure that every resident of Guangzipian could live in a new home.
He succeeded in achieving this.
He and Dongmei's mother are both senior revolutionaries and senior party members who are selflessly dedicated. All of them fought during the War of Liberation, and they all had glorious experiences. Although Bingyi has never been involved in war, isn't what he did in the aftermath exactly the efforts and struggles he made over and over again in peacetime?
They are all key people who make up our society.
Their contributions should always be remembered.