The 53-year-old woman who remarried her wife is terrible, she is controlled by him every day, and she is about to collapse
I had a devastating failed marriage, and when my ex-husband proposed separation, my world was shrouded in darkness. I have pleaded for my daughter, but to someone who has changed his mind, no matter how humble you may be, he will not look back.
Now I'm 53 years old and a fairly traditional woman. The divorce was a huge shock to me. For a long time, I was reluctant to associate with others, and I felt inferior.
If it weren't for my daughter's constant encouragement to go out and make friends, I would probably have been in a negative mood.
Deep down, I still longed to start a new relationship, because marriage is so important for women.
However, I am getting old, and it is not easy to find a man who truly loves me and has good conditions. After many years of blind date, I have never met a truly suitable person.
Last year, I had nothing to do because I was retired. My daughter is working outside again, and she has been staying at home alone for a long time, and her mood has become more and more depressed. Luckily, one of my neighbors' eldest sister invited me to dance with me.
When I was younger, I loved to dance, so I didn't hesitate to say yes to my neighbor's invitation to live with her for a while.
It was during that time that I met my current partner, Mr. Lee. He is talkative and humorous, has an excellent relationship with the opposite sex, and gives people a sense of lightness. Two months later, Mr. Li confessed to me.
However, Mr. Lee is less than 170 tall, while I myself am relatively tall. Even though I was 2 centimeters lower than him, I still looked taller when we stood together.
Therefore, my heart is full of doubts.
Mr. Li behaved very sincerely, and he spent more than half a year pursuing me. Although I am old, I am inevitably excited to meet such a good man.
In the end, we were able to obtain the certificate.
Mr. Lee told me that when his son got married, he used most of his savings to help him buy a house, so he had limited funds and could not afford to have a decent wedding for me.
He didn't talk a lot of nonsense, so I moved into his house. For me, it doesn't matter what the external conditions are, as long as I have a stable place to live, it is enough for him to be good to me.
However, after actually getting married, I got to know Mr. Li in depth and found out that he was a rather troublesome man.
Although my ex-husband and I are divorced, he will always be the father of my daughter, and we still have some connection. My ex-husband and I were usually accompanied by my daughter, and I never spent time with my ex-husband alone.
However, Mr. Li was very strong and forced me to block all of my ex-husband's ***. Once, when my ex-husband was anxious because he couldn't contact his daughter, he came to my house to look for me in person.
When Mr. Li saw that it was my ex-husband, his expression became very ugly, and he even accused me of being shameless in front of my ex-husband.
I felt very speechless, obviously I was innocent, and my ex-husband already had his own family, and the relationship between us had long ended. However, Mr. Li turned a deaf ear to my explanations and even secretly followed me many times, making sure that no matter who I was meeting with, he would know beforehand.
Mr. Li's feelings for me are so overbearing that I feel very unbearable.
I have few friends of the opposite sex, but when I run errands outside, I inevitably have to deal with different people. It's impossible for me to never interact with any men, but Mr. Lee's mindset is incomprehensible, and once I just exchanged a few words with the courier and he actually slapped me hard.
At that moment, I felt that life had become hopeless and my mood was unusually cold.
When Mr. Li first pursued me, he behaved so gently, but now it seems that it is just a disguise. He doesn't seem to really love me, but wants to control me.
Now I just want to get a divorce as soon as possible, or I'm really going to have a breakdown.
Summary: Nowadays, there are many men who have an imbalance in their psychology, and their understanding of love seems to be problematic. He may behave with respect and concern when you are not yet his partner.
However, once you become his wife, his love becomes extremely selfish and only pursues your unconditional obedience. When you meet such a controlling man, you may only feel cold in your marriage and it will be difficult to achieve happiness.
Sister Su now regrets it very much and hopes to divorce Mr. Li.
Leaving early is the most correct choice, once you relent, you will only ruin the rest of your life. For women, the reason why they pursue marriage is because they hope to find someone who truly loves them. If the appearance of the other person will only cause you more pain, it is better to live alone.