Hello everyone, I am a 46-year-old leftover girl named Li Ting. I was born in an ordinary family and grew up living in a warm and harmonious family environment. My parents are ordinary office workers, and they are very loving to me, but they are also very strict.
Growing up, I was always a relatively independent and autonomous girl. I enjoy reading, writing, drawing, and traveling. I have always done well in Xi, and after graduating from university, I worked for a large company and became a good professional woman.
As time went on, I gradually stepped into the ranks of leftover women. I'm not a fussy girl, but I have my own insistence and pursuit of marriage and family. I believe that marriage is not simply about living, but needs to be based on mutual respect and understanding. At the same time, I also hope that my marriage can be recognized and supported by both families.
I've been through several relationships over the past few years. Some guys are very fond of me, but I don't think they're my ideal mate;Some of the boys didn't meet my requirements and I couldn't accept them. Although I have been trying to find my other half, I have never found the right person.
As I got older, my parents started to worry about me and thought that I should find a suitable partner to marry and have children as soon as possible. I know they're doing it for my good, but I don't want to compromise my marriage because of my age. I think marriage is a lifelong event, and you can't just find someone to marry because of your age.
In the past few years, I have also participated in some blind date activities, but I have never met the right person. Sometimes I feel lonely and helpless, but I also face life positively. I love to party, chat, go shopping, and travel with friends. I also like the time I have alone to think about my life and plan for the future.
Although I am 46 years old, I don't consider myself old. I believe that age is just a number, and as long as you stay young and healthy, you can live a more fulfilling and exciting life. At the same time, I also believe that fate is destined, as long as you wait patiently and actively search, there will always be a suitable person in your life.
In this competitive and stressful society, I believe it is very important to remain independent and autonomous. Whether you are married or have children, you should have your own independent thinking and decision-making ability, so that you can better face the challenges and difficulties in life.
As a leftover woman, I don't feel inferior or lost, on the contrary, I think it is a free and independent way of life, I can focus more on my career and life pursuits, and at the same time enjoy the single life.