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After Zhou Bingyi died of cancer, his younger brother Bingkun finally understood the predicament and noble morality that his brother faced.
In Zhou's life, people like to talk about not his outstanding contributions in his career, but his inverted lifestyle, and his failure to show filial piety to his parents and seek any benefits for the Zhou family.
At the end of the day, Zhou Bingyi is the most controversial character in the book, and it may be difficult for you to really understand what kind of person he is. Whether his actions and thoughts are true or not, or whether they are really what we think. People sometimes think that he is not filial piety, sometimes they think that he is addicted to officialdom, sometimes they think that he is hypocritical, and sometimes they think that his arrogant attitude is beyond the scope of ordinary people's understanding.
It wasn't until he passed away that I began to re-examine his existence, the stains on his two careers and his last words, perhaps a rare and indispensable miracle in this world.
Zhou Bingyi did not have a son or daughter in his life, and his marriage to a high wife was indeed a real inverted door. After his father died in an accident, he lived with his parents-in-law. His various flattery to his mother-in-law, Jin Yueji, and his attitude towards Zhou's father and Zhou's mother, who lived in an adobe house, seem to label him as unfilial and hypocritical.
Zhou Bingyi chose to marry Hao Dongmei, not because he took a fancy to her background. When Hao Dongmei's parents were in trouble, he not only always supported her, but also gave up his future for her. Even though he knew that Hao Dongmei was unable to have children due to the cold, Zhou Bingyi's care for her was always the same.
It is no exaggeration to say that Zhou Bingyi's deep affection for Hao Dongmei not only transcends the difficulties experienced by the powerful, but also challenges the tradition of prolonging the heir. This love is not mixed with any personal feelings, they choose different partners before marriage, have no children after marriage, and even when he dies, constantly asks his wife to remarry in search of a new happy life.
At first, Hao Dongmei was the first person to have a good impression of Zhou Bingyi. Although he didn't have many other emotions in his school Xi, when he saw Hao Dongmei's tears for the low-level people in the photon area, he deeply felt the compassion of this kind girl, which made him put her deeply in his heart.
Later, when his eyes fell on the woman who had behaved nobly, he had never behaved unruly before he was married, not because he was unwilling, but out of his respect for her. In his opinion, she is just an ordinary woman, and his respect is respect for her. As he described, Dongmei was not only a person who appeared noble in his behavior, but also in his thoughts.
After they got married, Dongmei's mother was rehabilitated. But at this time, his wife lost her father, and his mother-in-law also lost her husband. Although everyone in the unit had a fierce dispute over the division of the house, and he also wanted to buy a house for his parents to show filial piety, he still chose to plug the door upside down for the sake of the overall situation.
He knew that he was doing this to maximize his own interests, so there was no need for him and his wife to live separately because of this. This not only fulfilled the wish of the wife and mother to be reunited, but also alleviated the loneliness of the mother-in-law. As a result, they no longer need to compete for a split or earn a good name for themselves, and the only thing that makes them feel guilty is their parents.
However, Zhou Bingyi did not pursue the best interests when deciding on marriage, which shows his innocence. When dealing with family affairs after marriage, he can only choose to pursue the best interests, which also reflects his maturity, because his wife is alone, and his parents have a younger brother by his side.
His various flatteries to his mother-in-law were not just for the sake of obtaining an official position, for his inner pride made him unwilling to seek an official position for himself in this way. He did this in order to enjoy his mother-in-law's home, so as to win her mother-in-law's favor, so that he would not feel any debt, and at the same time, he would be able to better maintain the marriage relationship between himself and his mother-in-law.
He didn't want to be childless, and he didn't want to be a person who turned the door down, but out of love and family considerations, he chose to do it despite his reluctance, but how could he feel comfortable inside?
His iron-faced selflessness is manifested as "unscrupulous."
Both Zhou Rong and Zhou Bingkun have been slapped in the face by their elder brother, and they both have a grudge against their brother's ruthlessness and selflessness.
However, Zhou Bingyi is undoubtedly one of the most worrisome people, and he has a deep affection for his younger brother and sister.
He wasn't worried that Zhou Rong's overly flamboyant personality might cause trouble for his status as student council president. On the contrary, in that position, he is not very good at dealing with his sister's crisis, and because of his brother's identity, he may deepen people's misunderstanding of Zhou Rong. So he always tries to avoid unnecessary conflicts and contradictions between his sister and brother, and tries not to let himself become a "bad boy" in the eyes of others. However, Zhou Rong didn't really feel this deep and good intentions at that time.
Regarding Bingkun, he has many friends and shows a bodhisattva-like compassion. But in Zhou Bingyi's eyes, this kind of mutual help is impossible. He had never walked through the back door for himself, so how could he have turned his back on his beliefs and principles because of these? In his eyes, he is a "sinner" because he knows that he is not a good thing, but he does not want to be treated like this. What's more, at that time, he really felt helpless, and sometimes it was even counterproductive. In short, in those days, he did a great job. In his career, he has been more cautious than anyone else.
When Zhou Bingkun considered the current situation of one or two of his friends, he found that Zhou Bingyi was facing thousands of workers who were at risk of losing their jobs. Despite their different perspectives, no one can truly understand their situation, and no one can truly share their worries. His life is in turmoil, while his wife is hurt by his actions. So he made a long journey to the Soviet Union, where he drank to death and collapsed in the hospital, breathing new life into that group of workers.
True, he somehow turned his back on his married life, having an affectionate kiss with the doctor, as well as with the daughter of the commander of the fleet. His lover is a female **, and she is his college classmate. At that time, he fell ill in the hospital and met Olia, an internist, and the two had a very happy conversation, which not only gave him spiritual comfort but also supported him throughout his career.
Therefore, he had been in love with this woman and had also taken advantage of her. However, everything he did was for the sake of the many workers, and although he was not prejudiced against the director, he genuinely wanted to solve those problems.
Although he kissed her affectionately in front of many guests at the time, at the end of the day, he was a man of integrity and selflessness. Perhaps under the influence of alcohol, he was slightly confused, but that doesn't mean he can't be forgiven.
Bow to the end, the last words left at the end of life.
Zhou Bingyi finally implemented a thorough reform of the photon area, which brought earth-shaking changes to countless families, but he received not gratitude, but many letters of report.
Zhou Bingyi explained in detail where each of the funds went, including those who couldn't find him through the back door, and those who didn't get compensation, all of whom had a strong hatred for him deep down and always longed to be able to defeat him. In the end, he successfully completed a demolition project worth tens of billions.
There were only two instances in which he had used his power for his own personal gain, both of which he had initiated. First of all, during the demolition process, he developed a prejudice against his younger brother Zhou Bingkun and adopted a relatively reasonable strategy; Secondly, he chose to leave for his nephew Zhou Cong, who couldn't find a job. After his "unscrupulous business" was revealed, it attracted widespread attention from the society and caused a lot of controversy. Although these things were not in his investigation, he still chose to confess voluntarily.
But in reality, the pain in his heart could not be removed, and they were two insignificant stains on his noble thoughts. His whole life has struggled to come through this small stain. However, I would like to emphasize that it is these two stains that ultimately reveal the beauty of family affection in his heart.
Although he did not show much filial piety in front of his parents, he invested a lot of money in his mother's medical care, his sister's rural life, and his younger brother's daily life. He is not ruthless, nor is he selfless, but the path he chooses is destined to require a lot of sacrifices.
In the end, Zhou Bingyi unfortunately passed away, which is inextricably linked to his long time of dedication to work and drinking alcohol and even hospitalization due to work. Although he was willing to do his best for the sake of his work, doing so did not earn him a good reputation.
After reading his last words towards the end of his life, I felt that I finally truly understood Zhou Bingyi's thoughts.
Zhou Rong, Bingkun and the three children of our parents, in their lives, the greatest luck is to be partners with excellent men and women, and this deep affection between husband and wife is second only to the kindness of parents. The happiness of the two of you is our happiness! The two of you should have a future of gratitude to Xiaoguang and Zheng Juan.
After my death, there was no need to buy a cemetery, my ashes could be placed in my parents' graves. I am an assertive person. If someone comments or attacks me, they should definitely not defend themselves and should not defend themselves.
At the end of his life, he admonished his younger brother and sister to cherish the deep affection between husband and wife, and cautioned them not to stand up for themselves because of criticism and comments made by others, and went further to ask his wife to remarry as soon as possible.
Throughout his life, he did not pursue fame, but really wanted to change the fate of the Photon area. His vision is not limited to his own small family, but is laid out for the people, but after all, he owes something to his small family. For his wife, he also chose to fulfill it, because of his neglect at work, because of his love, he didn't want to lose his wife alone, so he chose to fulfill her, let her remarry, and find new happiness.
In the end, when Zhou Bingkun witnessed Gong Weize, the people's policeman who sought the welfare of his seventh and eighth aunts, indulged in ** and wine in prison, he truly realized that his brother's integrity and integrity were actually a kind of shelter for them, and for their descendants, this was a positive spiritual guidance, rather than letting them become parasites of power and wealth because of their official positions.
Summary: What is the human world? It may take people like Zhou Bingkun who pay for their families, and people who seek the interests of the people and the public like Zhou Bingyi, and when the two are combined, the world will become a better place.
Among the three children of the Zhou family, the eldest son, Zhou Bingyi, gave his life for the people, the second son, Zhou Rong, gave his strength for love, education and charity, and the second son, Zhou Bingkun, contributed to the small family and helped relatives and friends as much as he could.
I think it's the real human world, where everyone has their strengths and weaknesses and everyone makes sacrifices. But when these factors come together, some are committed to filial piety, some are committed to education, and some are committed to reform, then the world becomes a richer place.
Therefore, in this world, everything is not black and white. The children of the Zhou family are all outstanding, but the real heartache may not be Zhou Bingkun, but Zhou Bingyi, who is dedicated to himself.