In the adult world, the tacit understanding that should be cultivated is that many things without an answer are the best answers, and no answers are the answers you want to give.
If a man is willing to give you money and make you feel loved, but never willing to open up your relationship and no longer need to pursue a clear answer, his attitude is the answer.
Behind his actions, there is only this psychology.
I don't really love you, you're just playing.
In "Ode to Joy", Qu meets Fan at a party.
Soon, he became Fan Shengmei's suitor, and in order to catch up with the beauty, Qi Lianjie, who was originally a rich second generation, did not spend less money, not only invited Fan Shengmei to dinner, but also sent luxury goods like water.
Fan Shengmei thinks that the other party is sincere herself, so she tries to give sincerity.
But from beginning to end, Qu Lianjie never mentioned that he wanted to take Fan Shengmei home to meet his parents, and he could see that Qu Lianjie's sincerity was that what happened to Fan Shengmei's family, and it took a lot of money to solve the trouble, Qu Lianjie avoided it, and would rather spend the money on eating and drinking than helping Fan Shengmei.
Men are willing to spend money to have fun, but they are not willing to spend a lifetime tied to a woman they don't love, which is a man's selfish heart and a very realistic human nature.
If a man is willing to spend money on you, don't believe that he is willing to give you the title to marry you back home, it is likely that the other person is just not short of money and uses you as a toy to pass the time.
I already have a family, and I can't give you any more points.
A lot of love, from a man's point of view, is reluctant.
The result of both wanting and wanting, can only be that the latter suffers grievances in a relationship.
is like Wang Manni in "Thirty Justices", who met Liang Zhengxian on a cruise ship, thinking that she had met the true destiny. Liang Zhengxian's money and knowledge are all needed by Wang Manni, of course, to have love with such a quality man and develop intimate relationships is also what Wang Manni yearns for.
It's just a coincidence, Wang Manni knows that the other party is unwilling to get married, just enjoying love.
originally thought that this was just the other party's attitude towards life, but I didn't expect that the truth of the matter was that Liang Zhengxian already had a fiancée, so there was no way to give Wang Manni the stable family life she wanted.
If the man shows a lot of love for you but is always reluctant to make your relationship more grounded, it may not be about love, but about reality.
A man who is only willing to give you money and can't give you more commitments is likely to already have a family, so he can't give you the marriage and family you really want.
The time together is short, and now is not the time to announce a relationship.
In the world of feelings, there is a long period and a short period.
The short selection stage is actually the test stage, where a man can give you money and is willing to spend time on you, but just to enjoy the sweetness of love, in the process of dating, give what you can give, and be willing to pay the price of pleasing you.
The time is not yet ripe to postpone the announcement of relations between the two countries.
Like my brother and girlfriend have been together for a long time, but they have never brought each other home, and when they were asked by their families, they replied in a way of coping, saying that the relationship between the two was unstable and it was inconvenient to speak.
Until the Mid-Autumn Festival, my younger brother brought his girlfriend home and was together openly.
After a short period of testing, it is a long-term firmness.
Understand that a man's willingness to give you money does not necessarily mean that your relationship has reached an indestructible, fully recognized stage.
If a guy is just willing to fall in love with you and is not willing to determine the relationship, don't worry too much, give the other person a little more time and screen carefully.