Do you have these three blessings?For "the blessed shall have three deficiencies." Let's take a look at what these three kinds of blessings are!
In our lives, we can often see some people living a leisurely life, they marry beautiful wives and husbands when they are young, and live a stable and happy life, until they are old, and their children are also extremely filial to them. Some people think that this kind of person is born rich and rich, and can live happier than others without hard work. So is there really such a person who is born with good fortune?The older generation often says: "The blessed must have three deficiencies", what are the three deficiencies referred to here?
Lack of heart. Many people have been told by their families that they lack heart, but this statement is not a derogatory term to some extent. For people who are truly happy, they are not too scheming. Those who lack faith are likely to be happier, because the more eyes they have, the heavier their hearts become. You must know that a person's mental capacity is limited, and hiding too much will only make you tired.
Only those who are open-minded can experience true joy and happiness. They know their needs, they don't get entangled in trivial matters, they can stick to their principles and bottom line, and even if they face unsatisfactory people or things, they can deal with them with a blind attitude. Because they know that life is too short, and being too sober will only make them more exhausted.
Lack of greed. Everyone has hidden emotions and desires, but we need to work hard to control our inner desires. If you can't even control your own desires, then you are doomed to be unable to make a difference in this life, and you may even ruin the future because of greed. In strong desires, greed often becomes the protagonist, as the saying goes, "the human heart is not enough for a snake to swallow an elephant", this sentence actually has a profound meaning. Actions that hurt others and harm oneself in order to satisfy one's greedy desires will eventually be lost in the same way.
For some extremely greedy people, they always have purpose in their interpersonal interactions and sometimes even risk reputational damage for the sake of trivial gains. It is conceivable that the result of this will only outweigh the losses. In contrast, a truly happy person will control his greed, do his part in a down-to-earth manner, and will not be deceived by his desires.
Lack of desire. To enjoy a happier life, you first need to learn to guard against arrogance and rashness. This refers to controlling the emotions of the fire. If a person is unable to control his emotions and is often angry or restless over trivial matters, then his life will not be very happy. Because most of the troubles are self-inflicted, it is clear that others are just unintentional words, but they are misunderstood as directed at themselves, which leads to resentment.
In fact, not everything is aimed at you, and even if others do target you, there is no need to worry too much. After all, you are living your own life, and there is no need for others to affect your emotions and happiness. For those who are overly irritable, they often make mistakes when making decisions due to emotional instability, and the more they rush to achieve results, the more likely they are to have loopholes. Only by handling affairs calmly and calmly can we be thoughtful.