Mr. Yang Jiang said: "Life is your own, don't embarrass yourself, what kind of ability you have, what kind of life you live." Do your best, do what you can, be a warm person, have your own preferences, have your own principles, and have your own beliefs. With a natural attitude, live a life that is at ease with what happens. For the rest of your life, stand at your own height and see the scenery that should be seen. ”
In this life, it is just a feeling. It is a day to have money, it is a day to have no money, it is a day to succeed, and it is also a day to fail. As long as you adjust your mentality, live happily and chicly, there is nothing that you can't let go, nothing you can't unravel.
Don't be too yourself, don't be embarrassed by the world. Life is accidental, death is inevitable, take it as it is, go with the flow.
CCTV ** had a skit about borrowing money.
The protagonist played by Pan Changjiang is righteous and kind to others. If someone else is in trouble, he will definitely be there. When others want to borrow money, he will give generously.
For this reason, his wife quarreled with him many times, but Pan Changjiang still went his own way. The wife said angrily: "You can't count on any of your friends, and I don't believe you can borrow money to try."
Pan Changjiang hit ** in turn and borrowed money from his best friend, but everyone not only refused, but also made sarcastic and accusations, which made him extremely embarrassed.
As the saying goes, if you want to break off a relationship, borrowing money once is enough.
In this world, begging for people is like swallowing a three-foot sword, and borrowing money is like going to the Nine Heavens. If you put your hope in someone else, you will get loss and regret.
Don't expect others, rely on yourself in everything, is the greatest sobriety in the world.
I've seen such a Douyin**:
A middle-aged woman goes shopping with her husband, worrying about buying toys for her children, gifts for her husband, and finally she wants to buy something for herself.
She looked at a favorite dress and asked the salesman the price, and the salesman quoted 2000 yuan **, the middle-aged woman hesitated, she really liked this dress too much, and she was reluctant to spend so much money, she looked at her husband.
The husband said that you have several clothes, there is no need to buy any more, and then pulled him home.
Sometimes, we are so busy worrying about others that we forget to take care of ourselves.
In a lifetime, the grass and trees have fallen. Time is not forgiving, we say that old is old. If you can't love yourself, then who will love you?If you're not willing to please yourself, who are waiting to please you?
Be kind to yourself, put your worries aside, and live every day happily, which is worth it in the world.
The root cause of suffering in life is because we have too many desires and too little ability.
The monthly salary is 3,000, but I envy other people's luxury cars and villas, and I have fine clothes and food. He was born from an ordinary background and was helpless, but he was looking forward to ** Houlu and ascending to the sky in one step.
Ability can't match ambition, talent can't catch up with desire, we are always in a huge gap, tossing and turning, miserable.
Serve as much of an appetite as you want. What kind of ability you have, what kind of life you live
Yan Hui, a student of Confucius, lived in a narrow alley, eating vegetables and drinking cold water every day.
Even if you have no money, no power, no status, and are ordinary like an ant, as long as you adjust your mentality, you can still spend a comfortable and leisurely life in the deepest red dust and fireworks.