Text|Moe.
When a woman chooses to ignore you, it's actually a test of a man's mind and heart.
Why?
Because women are naturally fond of the new and dislike the old, especially at the beginning of a relationship, you are extremely valuable to her, so she may be gentle and considerate to you and do her best to cater to you.
But over time, she will gradually Xi your goodness and may begin to treat you coldly. Faced with this situation, some immature men may fall into a state of humility and flattery, but this behavior often makes women feel that your favor seems cheap.
So, what kind of strategies do men with patterns adopt?They will psychologically set a game for women and rekindle their possessiveness towards him.
Next, let's learn Xi following three tricks to help you gain the upper hand in the emotional game.
The first trick: no expectations
In relationships, giving is not always rewarded, and don't expect too much from a woman's response. Don't let the other person's actions dictate your emotions, everyone is an individual, just focus on doing what you have to do.
The second trick: establish the bottom line and framework
As mentioned earlier, to be themselves, men should still show initiative, but this initiative should be carried out within a certain framework. Don't blindly be nice to women, and don't be overly flattering. If she crosses your bottom line, be sure to respond decisively, and a moderate amount of cold treatment is feasible.
The third trick: grasp the dominance
It is the dominant one in the relationship between the sexes that has the right to speak. When a woman realizes that she can't do without you, you have successfully occupied the high ground of the relationship. So, how can you regain dominance in your relationship?
It's very simple, don't pay too much attention to this woman. Don't ask questions when she doesn't reply to messages, don't hit ** frequently, focus on herself, and live her life in her own way. You have to make her realize that without her, you can still live a wonderful and comfortable life.