When people reach middle age, they have experienced dozens of yearsMarriage, often fall into a bland and boring state, so that the firewood, rice, oil and salt are mixed into a boring and boring state. Family life is no longer full of passion and romance, but is full of trivial and repetitive routines. At this time, many people begin to feel irritable and eager to be able to change the status quo and get rid of itMarriageburnout period.
Middle age is a critical period of life development, and it is also a time for people to fall intoMarriageA time of crisis. At this time, many people are susceptible to the outside world, and it is easy to shake their own feelings for the opposite sexMarriageattitude. However, this kind of "initiative" from the outside world is often not a kind of fate, but a kind of calamity.
Life is a tortuous road, and the initiative of the opposite sex is a stumbling block in it. In middle age, we have usually gone through the ups and downs of life and established our own families and careers. However, it is at this time that many people lose themselves emotionally.
Life is full of all kinds of **, we will pass by many people, and we will also meet some people of the opposite sex who have expressed a crush on us. At this time, they suddenly integrate into our lives and show us full of tenderness and thoughtfulness. It's easy to get addicted to such a relationship.
However, we must understand that such relationships are often based on one-sided understanding and superficial beauty. In the initial stage of development, it is normal for both people to try to show their strengths and cover up their shortcomings. However, when we get caught up in it, it's easy to get carried away by the tenderness and thoughtfulness of the other person, and thus ignore our own responsibilities andMarriagestability.
When a person takes the initiative to show favor to you, it often makes you feel valued and needed. However, we must be soberly aware that no one will be nice to you for no reason, they will always try to take something. When we blindly get caught up in this relationship, oursMarriageThe relationship will also be distancing, and the distance between us and the other half will gradually increase.
In fact, it is not a wise choice to lose your mind and get into such a relationship. BetrayalMarriageWhen it comes to ethics and bottom lines, everyone should have their own judgment and self-restraint. If an adult loses these abilities, it will not only hurt the family business, but also himself.
The reason why many people feel that the initiative of the opposite sex in middle age is because they are very attractive. However, this self-confidence needs to be considered calmly. What we need to think about is why the other person has a good impression of us, what they want to gain from us, and what we have lost. We need to realize that this kind of relationship is often beautiful on the surface, but there are many problems and contradictions hidden behind it. If we blindly pursue this relationship, we will only end up repeating the mistakes of the past, and even more complicated and painful.
Whenever it isMarriageThey all need to be cherished and managed. Middle-agedMarriageThe reason why it has flattened down is because we have become accustomed to the presence of the other person, and the kindness and care for the other person have faded over time. We think that what we can't get is the best, but we ignore that the best is already around us.
MarriageRunning-in and disagreement are inevitable, but that doesn't meanMarriageLost its meaning. We need to look at each other with an appreciative eye and learn to look for good things in each other. Mature people should be able to rationally avoid "love calamity" and maintain a moderate distance and scale with the opposite sex. Don't have a fluke mentality, thinking that paper can't contain fire. There are a lot of things that can't be tried and wrong, when we touch themMarriageThe bottom line will inevitably pay a corresponding price. Middle age is an important stage in life, and we should cherish our time and stay away from those that destroy usMarriageThe rotten peach blossoms.