Appearance is people's first impression of others, although some people think that appearance should not be the only criterion, but in the eyes of some "" women, appearance does affect their favorability towards the opposite sex. Such a woman usually has three characteristics that make people see at a glance. This article will delve into these three characteristics, and use Qiao Simei in the TV series "Children of the Qiao Family" as a case study to show the specific performance of these characteristics and the consequences they bring.
In real life, some women believe that physical appearance is important, especially for the opposite sex. They will subconsciously judge each other's merits and attractiveness by the appearance of the opposite sex. For these women, as long as the opposite sex is good-looking, more merits will be given in their hearts. With a good-looking appearance, you can get more tolerance and privileges from them.
Qiao Simei in the case study is a typical "lustful" woman. She has been passionate about pursuit since she was a childFashionableAnd beautiful, and when you grow up, you also pay attention to your appearance. Even if the people around her said that women should find an honest and down-to-earth person to live with, and should not judge people too much by their appearance, Qiao Simei also resolutely disagreed. She thinks, among other things, how can a person be attractive if he is not good-lookingThis emphasis on appearance allows her to judge a person by the appearance of the opposite sex in her daily life, ignoring other important aspects.
However, in Joe SimeiMarriage, she attaches too much importance to her appearance, which eventually leads to her misfortune. She met Qi Chenggang by chance and was attracted by his appearance. Even if the other party is far away, she still goes to him. However, Qi Chenggang did not cherish Qiao Simei, and even kept it with other women during their relationshipIntimacy。After getting married, Qi Chenggang cheated four times before Qiao Simei decided to divorce. Although Qiao Simei has always been tolerant and patient, her "lustful" nature makes it difficult for her to be in this paragraphMarriageto get happiness. Qiao Simei's example proves the characteristics of "lustful" women, as long as the other party has a good-looking appearance, they usually make a series of compromises and tolerances to each other.
Lustful"Women are usually people who dare to love and hate, and they never hide their liking for the things they like. They do not hesitate or twist when it comes to pursuing the opposite sex they like or expressing their opinions. This decisiveness and frankness give a feeling of comfort and ease that impresses the opposite sex. Therefore, whether from the point of view of friends or suitors, such a woman usually has a large number of people of the opposite sex around her.
Due to"Lustful"With women's decisiveness and self-confidence, as well as the importance of appearance, they are usually able to attract a lot of the opposite sex. Their appearance and personality make a good first impression and cause positive resonance and affection among the opposite sex. As a result, there is usually no shortage of suitors and friends around them, and there are many opportunities to reach out and build relationships with the opposite sex.
Lustful"Women usually have the characteristics of attaching importance to appearance, self-confidence, daring to love and hate, and having many people of the opposite sex around them. Although physical appearance can have an impact on a person's liking in the initial stages, a long-lasting happy relationship requires more factors. In the pursuit of happiness and long-term relationships, a person's character, three views and quality are the more important determinants. As a result, a woman who is too judgmental about her appearance may be hurt in her relationship. Although appearance is important, we should focus more on a person's inner and better qualities, not just their physical appearance. At the same time, we also need to recognize that everyone has different values and preferences, and we should not judge people too much by their appearance or label others.