In a relationship, every couple of men and women who love each other expects to go through a lifetime. However, there are actually many people who are unable to do it for various reasons, and even the best of the relationship may fall apart.
Some men and women who have broken up feel pain because they have given sincerely, and it is difficult to accept the pain of falling out of love.
Of course, there are also some people who are glad that they did not continue to consume themselves in unworthy feelings.
No matter what the reason for the separation is, it will leave some painful memories for each other, and it will be able to be relieved and worthy of yourself.
In fact, there are certainly signs of the end of the relationship between men and women, and there are three main reasons.
First, the feelings have faded
Relationships need to be maintained by both men and women, and if you ignore this, it is easy for the relationship to become cold.
In reality, when two people start a relationship, the relationship is very strong and they want to be together every day. However, as time goes by, the feelings will always fade, from the initial sweetness to indifference.
Some men and women may get bored after being together for a long time and feel that they are no longer free. As a result, they no longer take the initiative to maintain their feelings, and even gradually distance themselves from each other.
For example, her colleague Xiaofang and her boyfriend had a good relationship at first, and her boyfriend would take time out to spend time with her every day. However, as time went on, her boyfriend became less patient to listen to Xiaofang's thoughts, and even deliberately avoided her. This change made Xiaofang doubt the relationship, which eventually led to a breakup.
In fact, when one partner begins to feel irritable with the other and no longer cares about the other as much as in the past, it means that the love between them has deteriorated and the relationship is likely to become indifferent.
Second, there is no feeling for each other
Someone shared that every time she messaged her girlfriend, she only replied with one word "um". This disappointed him and felt that his girlfriend had become cold to his feelings.
He cares a lot about his relationship, but the response he gets is always just a cold reply from his girlfriend. Eventually, he discovers that his girlfriend has no feelings for him anymore.
A year and a half later, the guy proposed to break up, and the girlfriend deleted him without even asking. This shows that his girlfriend has long lost her love for him and has no feelings for him.
When there is no feeling between men and women, no matter what you do, you will no longer move each other, and the other person may even want you to leave as soon as possible.
This kind of relationship has lost the meaning of existence, and it just needs one party to take the initiative to break up. Therefore, once you don't feel for each other, it's almost impossible to continue to get along.
3. Empathy
Feelings are private and require loyalty. The relationship between men and women is over, probably because one party is empathetic and not in love.
When the other person falls in love with someone else, the affection for you will weaken, and such a relationship will not stand the test.
My friend Xiaojuan and her boyfriend have been in love for three years, and I thought they would get married. However, the boyfriend fell in love with his first love because of a party, which caused the relationship to fade. Xiaojuan obviously felt that her boyfriend had lost interest in her, and finally her boyfriend confessed that he was in love with someone else and proposed to break up.
In this case, neither man nor woman should be humbly redeemed, because there is no longer any need for such a relationship. People who are not worth it are not worth entangling anymore, they should let go and let themselves start again, maybe the next relationship will be better.
Final Thoughts:
As Yishu said: "Why prove anything to the unworthy, live better, but for yourself." ”
In a relationship, if two people are over, instead of continuing to stick to the unworthy love, it is better to let yourself relax and start again.
Between men and women, once they no longer love each other, no matter how hard they try, they can't move each other. So, don't be humble, love needs to be able to take it, and it also needs to be let go in order to avoid falling into a meaningless relationship and consuming yourself.
In general, in a relationship, the reasons for the end of a man's and a woman's fate are likely to be the above three, and I hope this can cause some thinking and vigilance.
True love is the sincere dedication and mutual maintenance of both parties. If the person you love no longer loves you, remember to stop the loss in time.