I watched the show on the third episode of "Goodbye Lover 3" about Fu Seoul and Lao Liu, and I felt very emotional about their stories. I would like to talk about them in some details, and I also want to ** the topic of marriage.
Fu Seoul and Lao Liu are not just themselves, they also represent the married life of many of us. Through their stories, I hope to be able to see the various situations and faces of people in marriage. In the beginning, the gentlemen's chats revealed an air of confidence, and they were all very firm when talking about other people's problems.
However, when the picture shifts to the women, they dissect themselves, share their own experiences, and reach a state of empathy by feeling the experiences of others. One of the biggest points I feel from the woman's chat is that the woman seems to have changed in all three relationships, while the boy is still in place.
At first, I wrote that women grow, but then I decided to use the word "changed" because in a relationship, a one-way change can also be a change for the worse. We can see that after experiencing a series of setbacks and difficulties, the heroine gradually realizes her rights and values and begins to bravely pursue her own happiness. However, this process is not all smooth sailing, and the problems caused by the woman's awakening have become a major attraction in the story.
A woman's awakening can also lead to strain in family relationships. In many families, the traditional division of gender roles has led to women taking on most of the housework and childcare responsibilities. And as women awaken, they begin to pursue professional development and personal fulfillment, which will undoubtedly have an impact on family relationships. When faced with the choice between family and career, the heroine needs to find a balance that can not only realize her own value, but also maintain the harmony of the family.
In this show, I like Hu Yanbin's "Definition of a New Type of Intimate Relationship" the most: emphasizing letting go of the identity label of men and women, and no longer defining personal behavior and responsibilities based on gender. We need to redefine the division of labor in the family and no longer regard gender as the only criterion. Secondly, every family should be diverse and individualized. Different people have different abilities and specialties, and the matching combination of these abilities will form a diversified family partner.