Nowadays, class reunions have become a "peculiar phenomenon". As time goes on, nostalgia for the student days grows. The fond memories of their student days make many students who have graduated for many years feel reluctant. As a result, class reunions have become a place to reconnect with old friendships and reminisce about the good old days. However, class reunions have also undergone some changes. After losing touch for many years, some class reunions have become somewhat "utilitarian" and have become a place to "ask for someone to ask for help". This change makes people feel weird, but it also makes people wonder: which students will come uninvited?And which students will not move?Let's take a closer look.
1. Students who are demanding
Some students were in trouble and needed help from their old classmates, so they came to the scene with the mentality that they had to attend a class reunion. In this way, they hope to express their needs to their old classmates and expect some help and support. At this time, the class reunion became a bridge for them to communicate and ask for help.
2. Students with financial difficulties
Some students are struggling financially and may take advantage of class reunions to borrow money from their classmates or skip meals. For them, class reunions are a place where they ask for help and warmth.
3. Students who like to show off
This type of student has better living conditions and has a certain amount of financial resources and time at his disposal. They enjoy the opportunity to show their superiority in class reunions, hoping to strengthen their status and recognition in the circle of classmates.
4. Students who have free time
In addition, some students are willing to go to class reunions and enjoy various benefits, such as eating, drinking, and chatting, because they have more free time and do not do things that they think are meaningless.
1. Rich and busy students
Such students already have relatively comfortable living conditions, and they may already have their own circle of friends and social circles. Therefore, they are reluctant to get involved at class reunions and do not want to get involved. They prefer to choose to host their own parties and enjoy a similar life with like-minded friends.
2. Students with high self-esteem
This type of student may have been very glamorous in their student days, but they have not achieved much after graduation. They are reluctant to go to class reunions because they are afraid that their previous image will be shattered, and they are afraid that people will see their current predicament. For them, maintaining self-esteem and maintaining a good face is more important than attending class reunions.
3. Students with a low sense of presence
This type of student is relatively low-key and has a low sense of presence during his student years. Class reunion organizers tend to ignore their presence, and even if they are invited, they don't go to it. For them, class reunions are not something they pay attention to, and they are more accustomed to developing their lives and careers alone.
The changes in class reunions actually reflect the changes in classmates. Inevitably, some people become utilitarian driven by personal interests, while others avoid parties because of past failures. However, we should not forget our original aspirations, and class reunions should be an opportunity to share growth and progress with each other. Don't be fooled by utilitarianism, the most important thing in your student years is to work hard to improve your learning and abilities. Only in this way can you get a better promotion and future in the workplace. Therefore, you should cherish the opportunities of your student days, be yourself, and be brave enough to pursue your dreams. Class reunions are not a place for comparison, but a place to share good times while encouraging each other and making progress together. In the end, let us continue to miss the beauty of our student days, cherish the growth of the present, and continue to strive to become a better version of ourselves.