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If a man wants to be happy in his married life, he must first give his wife happiness through the following three actions, and a satisfied wife will also strive to repay the man.
Dale Carnegie believed that when people fall in love, they try not to expose their shortcomings and inadequacies to each other. But after getting married, it's different, and many people begin to show their truest and most comprehensive selves.
But when a woman who speaks softly and seems especially gentle when she is in love, when she has problems after marriage, she changes her appearance: she loses her temper with men, speaks seriously, hurts men's self-esteem.
At this time, many husbands will choose to run away or treat their wives in the same violent way, as if disaster is coming.
In addition, when a married man sees some wives who are not beautiful after marriage, such as not wearing makeup or trying to dress up, he will look down on the other party and even regret marrying such a woman home.
However, Dale Carnegie, in The Weakness of Human Nature, advises people to accept the imperfections of life and love with a peaceful mind. Only in this way will the two not part ways because of work.
No one doesn't want to be taken seriously in an intimate relationship.
Just like many married women choose to divorce, or betray their marriage, mainly because they don't have the love of their husbands.
How to make a wife feel that she is a particularly important presence in a man's heart, a man can do the following two things every day:
First of all, even if you are busy at work, you should contact your wife and tell her how much you miss her.
Second, pay attention to the sense of ceremony, don't forget your wife's birthday or wedding anniversary, and don't remember it clearly but don't show anything.
Before the divorce, star Sun Yi made fun of Dong Zijian for not receiving any gifts on Valentine's Day and birthday.
What a woman cares about is not how expensive the gift is, but how much time the lover is willing to spend on herself.
There is a passage in "The Weakness of Human Nature" that most men neglect to be considerate in the little things of daily life. They don't know: the lost love is all in small dots.
According to Dale Carnegie, love always includes conversation, and this is true for both men and women who meet for the first time.
Married couples also need to talk, and while emotional communication is multichannel, verbal communication never goes out of style.
Some married women complain about their husbands: they rarely talk to them when they come home, and after dinner they lie on the couch watching TV or playing on their phones. After climbing, he didn't ask his wife if she was tired or interested, but asked for intimacy. There are no superfluous love words, as if all love words were said before marriage.
In fact, a man who lives happily as a husband and wife knows how to praise and express love to his wife.
Men who refuse to communicate or are often reticent tend to have a worse relationship with their wives.