This book mainly tells the story of a teenager whose parents don't love him and his brothers don't like him, who repeatedly tries on the edge of friendship, is excluded and isolated again and again, but stands up strongly, and finally reconciles with life.
The protagonist Sun Zhanglin is the second child of the Sun family, and his birth is not glamorous or likable. When he was six years old, because of his family's poverty, he was given by his father to a childless couple in the town. At the age of 12, his adoptive father committed suicide and his adoptive mother abandoned him. Sun Guanglin once again became a child that no one wanted, and had to return to his original family. His return was like a burden thrown out, and it was suddenly smashed back. He became a burden to the Sun family, his father regarded him as a bad omen, instinctively rejected him, his brothers hated him, and his friends in the village alienated him and bullied him, and his mother also ignored him, which exacerbated his isolated situation. Sun Guanglin is like a passer-by living at home, he is alone every day, and even the villagers can see that he is out of place. In middle school, he finally made a friend Su Yu who could comfort each other, but Su Yu was sentenced to one year for sexual harassment that ended without a problem. After Su Yu was released from prison, almost everyone spit on him, and his biological parents were even more cold. The indifference of relatives and the departure of friends have sent Sun Guanglin into the abyss of loneliness again and again. He called for family affection, but no one answered, calling out for friends, still alone. But in this book with the theme of loneliness, it is not only Sun Guanglin who has grown up with difficulty.
Sun Guanglin's childhood partner, National Day, his mother died early, and he was abandoned by his father at the age of nine, so he had to be accompanied by a neurotic old woman. Her childhood friend Su Yu, her parents always sneered at her and suppressed education. Sun Guanglin grew up and forgot to make a friend of Lulu, his mother was sent to the ** farm, and at the age of six, he lived a life of eating and sleeping in the open, and there was nothing to add, and companionship seemed to be just a sporadic embellishment of their lives. Most of the time, every step they take forward seems to be choked by the throat, and every step back is empty, and they can only walk alone. In order to get out of the situation of loneliness and loneliness. Visitors desperately want to blend in with the excitement. He had tried to get close to his family, but his family's alienation and lack of care about him made him more uncomfortable than scolding. After a long time, he finally realized that he was not the same person with them at all. His father is a disloyal, unfilial, and unscrupulous scoundrel, and his mother has no bottom line, and a forbearant father-daughter brother is full of lies and violence. After his younger brother drowned, his father's first thought was how to promote himself as a hero. My father fantasized about taking advantage of this to soar and gain fame and fortune. Because they were afraid that the chaotic family relationship would affect other people's opinions, they forcibly brought Sun Guanglin, who had been ignored for a long time, to perform together. Sun Guanglin watched the family's daydreams coldly, and also deeply felt that in the face of interests, family affection had long been indifferent, and the family was just tricky.
In this world, everyone is an individual. Even in the closest of families, we can feel lonely. Because each of us has our own thoughts, emotions, and experiences. These unique experiences and emotions make us individuals.
When we feel lonely, we can try to connect with others. This can be achieved through social events, participating in interest groups, gathering with friends, etc. Communicating with others can make us feel noticed and supported.
In addition, we can alleviate loneliness through self-exploration. Reading books, Xi a new skill, creating art, etc., can all help us discover our interests and passions. Not only do these activities make us feel fulfilled and purposeful, but they also help us understand ourselves better.
The most important thing to remember: loneliness is a normal emotional experience. It does not mean that we are isolated or excluded. Rather, it is an opportunity for us to better understand ourselves and find our sense of belonging. When we learn to accept our loneliness and actively look for ways to alleviate it, we can better cope with this emotional experience and find our own happiness.
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