Life is like a play, and emotions are the most exciting and difficult part of the play to control. The emotion between men and women is even more so, if you want to be comfortable in this scene, you must keep the three bottom lines, otherwise it is easy to "cross the line" and lead to emotional breakdown.
Bottom line 1: respect. Respect is the most basic way to get along with each other. Whether it's in family, friendship, or love, respect is indispensable. Respect means equality, it means attention and understanding for the other person. In the interaction between men and women, respect is even more important. We must respect the wishes of the other party, respect the decisions of the other party, and respect the privacy of the other party. If this is not done, then the feelings become unequal, one partner will feel suppressed and constrained, and the other will feel ununderstood. Over time, this disrespect can lead to a breakdown of the relationship.
The second bottom line: trust. Trust is the most precious asset in a relationship. Only feelings based on trust can last for a long time. Trust includes honesty, loyalty, and dedication to the other person. We have to believe what the other person says, believe in the other person's actions, and believe in the other person's feelings for us. If this is not done, then the relationship becomes fragile, and once there is a storm, doubts and suspicions arise. Such feelings cannot stand the test, and it is easy to "cross the line".
The third bottom line: self. In relationships, we can't afford to lose ourselves. No matter when and where, we should have our own principles and bottom lines. We must have our own goals in life, our own way of life, and our own hobbies. In relationships, we also have to have our own pursuits and dreams. Only in this way can we maintain our independence and autonomy, and can we have enough courage to face the challenges and changes in our relationships. If we lose ourselves, then we will become passive, we will be easily influenced and controlled by the other party, and thus it will be easy to "cross the line".
In the world of feelings, it is not easy to keep these three bottom lines. We need to keep learning, growing, and reflecting in order to better grasp the balance of feelings. But as long as we can persevere, we will be able to win the respect and trust of the other party, and we will be able to maintain our independence and autonomy, so that the relationship will last for a long time.
Relationships are complex and require us to manage and maintain them with our hearts. Only by keeping these three bottom lines can we better face the challenges and changes in our relationships, and make our relationships more beautiful and long-lasting.
In the world of feelings, we are all explorers and learners. We will make mistakes, we will get hurt, we will cry, but we will also grow, we will be strong, and we will cherish more. At the same time, we need to learn to listen, understand, tolerate and give. We must learn to care for each other, pay attention to each other, and support each other. We must learn to share happiness, share worries, and grow together. Only in this way can we build a strong emotional bridge and let the boat of love sail freely in the sea of emotions.