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Human beings are good at disguise, pretending to be friendly to others, pretending to respect others, but in fact, their hearts have already turned upside down, and they don't know how many times they have laughed at each other.
Many people call this hypocrisy "wisdom" and "city", and those who do not agree with it become "pedantic" and "stupid" in their eyes.
The human heart cannot be seen directly like the sun, and we have no way of knowing the true thoughts of others, but we will not be ignorant.
When a person frequently makes you feel uncomfortable, it is not that you are overhearted, but that you have a preliminary judgment and should stay away.
01: Feel like he's suspicious of your motives
When two people who are close to each other, one of them has a suspicion in his heart, and the other person will feel it.
The most intuitive feeling is that the other party's doubts have increased, and the original belief in doubt has become hesitant at some point, making you feel at a loss.
He will suspect your motives and intentions, not know what purpose your actions are hiding, and even repel you and make unwarranted accusations against you.
The occurrence of these behaviors will make you disheartened and physically exhausted towards the other person, and you already have plans to separate.
It's not because of a weak heart, but that this relationship has reached the point where there is a gap in the white bottle, and it is difficult to repair it without a trace.
Moreover, sooner or later, this rift will fall apart, so that the good memories that originally existed will be gone, and the two sides will only be left with complaints and hatred.
If you are sure that the trust and security of both parties has long been missing, don't dwell on them and stay away from them as soon as possible.
02: It feels like he's taking advantage of you
There is a kind of person who has a very deep city, and on the surface it is like a breeze, but in fact his heart is like a poisonous scorpion, he has no friendship, and some are just using his heart.
Such a person always has a harmless face from humans and animals, and when he gains the trust of others, he will let it be used for himself.
If you feel the other party's hypocrisy, but he denies it, but instead perfunctory you with a posture of "you don't believe me, I can't help it", don't doubt it, he is using you.
People who really care about you will not only focus on right and wrong in front of you, regardless of feelings, and will not put on a bad appearance, which obviously reveals that they don't care about you.
Moreover, when you have this feeling, you are afraid of your own misjudgment, and you don't have to rush for a while, if he really cares about you and will try his best to mend your relationship, you will feel the sincerity of the other person.
After several rounds of negotiations, you will judge whether it is true or not.
03: It feels like he doesn't respect you
The intimacy of two people is based on mutual care and respect.
When you care about each other, you will put each other's feelings first, not your own thoughts.
Therefore, if the other person often behaves disrespectfully towards you, ignores your opinions, interrupts you, belittles or ridicules you, etc., then he has no respect for you, and only belittles and bullies.
The most intuitive way to do this phenomenon is to pua you.
Don't believe the excuse that he is careless or tired, respect is an act that comes from the heart and does not need to be groomed, not a deliberately designed or attentional action.
If you already feel the contempt of the other person, there is no need to continue to tempt, because the contempt that naturally flows is the most real.
He may not want to pretend, or he may want to control you, no matter what kind of state of mind, it means that the other party does not treat you sincerely and treat you as an equal, then, there is really no need to continue such a relationship.
Kind people who have negative feelings about others will always look at themselves first to see if there is something wrong with them.
Not necessarily.
In the dead of night, when we look back on the details with the other person, we can perceive the changes in him, whether these changes have intensified over time, and if so, we don't have to bother maintaining them, because the other person has long been unwilling to spend time with you, and is even waiting for you to open his mouth to end the relationship.
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