There are often cases that come across that:
A woman meets a man, and this man always likes to sell miserably in all kinds.
Talking about how difficult it was for me to be a child, how pitiful it was, especially sincere, how I was let down in the last relationship, how miserable it was, how sorry the other party was, how hard I worked, how heavy the burden was, and how difficult it was.
Anyway, I always like to put myself in the position of a victim, and it seems that I always have so many blood and tears history.
When meeting such a man, some women are always easy to feel pity and become very sympathetic to each other.
They even want to save, and they want to be very good to each other.
Other women were very confused, saying that they couldn't understand and didn't understand why the other party was like this. And a man always sells miserably, that's actually not so difficult to understand.
It's really miserable, and I didn't take it well.
Indeed, not everyone has a good family of origin and a good family environment.
There will be some men, since childhood, the family situation is really not very good, the parents' cognition is also very limited, in the past years, there are many very bad experiences, after growing up, in the relationship, in the career, it is not too smooth.
As a result, I feel a little self-pity and feel that I am quite miserable.
I will have this kind of cognition, and I always want to tell others, I want others to recognize me, sympathize with myself, find some sense of value from others, and get some comfort.
In this case, in fact, it is still stuck in the past, and it is still holding on to those bad things.
Even if those things have been in the past for a long time, they can't do it again, and they have already turned the page, but they always can't get out, and they feel so pitiful.
It's that there isn't much strength in the heart, it's the child inside who is still crying and trembling all the time.
You always have to keep talking and get some comfort from others, so that you can be more down-to-earth and at ease.
In this way, in exchange for love.
Most men, no matter who they meet, will sell miserably, and often only target specific objects.
This is often the case when he has a good impression of you, or tries to develop with you.
Because he knows very well that many women are soft-hearted and easy to have pity, and once a woman has such emotions, it is easy to fall in love, and she will want to show her love and love a man well.
Some men are more likely to take advantage of this, after all, he just wants to find a woman like that, who is more kind, simpler, and easier to control, and is easy to be emotional, like a moth to a flame, to show his true heart.
No way, some people just like this, that is, they want to find a woman like this to start a relationship.
Think about it, when you meet such a woman, then in this relationship, you can get a lot of love from women, so that women's love is overflowing, why not.
It really doesn't cost much, and even if something goes wrong, it's always easy to coax it.
There are many kinds of love, and it just so happens that some people want this one, either they really like this, or in fact, they just want to find one like that, so that everything can be compared and simple, as long as they sell miserably, they can easily occupy the right to dominate.
I don't want to give, I want to get something for nothing.
Basically, selling miserably is all about being able to get something, either emotionally or materially.
There may be men who simply desire to have feelings, but there are also men who hope that by saying that they are miserable, they can get some privileges in getting along with each other, and they don't always have to spend money.
It is better to pay more for the woman, and even say that not only the woman bears the money for the expenses of the two people together, but it is better to spend some of it for him.
At present, many women are quite independent, and their economic conditions are not bad, and they don't mind paying for dating, paying for the people they like, as long as they like it, they don't care so much at all.
It is true that there is nothing wrong with paying for love, but if a man is obviously materially okay, but he always makes all kinds of excuses, all kinds of stinginess, all kinds of saying that he is not easy, and he is generous to himself, but he is only very picky in love, he still needs to pay attention.
probably doesn't value this relationship at all, and I haven't thought about it for a long time, but I just want to take advantage.
Between men and women, there will be women who want men to pay and get a lot from men, and some men are the same, they just want empty gloves and white wolves, and it is best not to let themselves spend any cost.
Of course, this kind of relationship is not normal, it is still necessary to have a long snack, don't be stupid all the time and can't see clearly, it is best to stop the loss as soon as possible.
It's not a good thing to sell badly.
Adults, it's best to rarely behave like this, no matter who you get along with, it's best to keep your mouth shut, hide your misfortune, and don't always look like others are sorry for you.
Stuck in the past, constantly talking, and talking about yourself as miserable, it is not good for your life after all.
A woman who has a certain amount of experience, is really well-informed, and is very reliable will also disdain such behavior.
We still have to know how to let go of the past, to accept our past, and to get rid of it.
Atmospheric, sincere, patterned, light and light, smiling, not disturbed by the past, treat the present well, to open a new life, that is often more charming, more attractive to the opposite sex.
Being in a relationship will make each other healthier and less pathological.
Text: Tan Meng.
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