Remy wrote this sentence in "Psychological Crime":
"Physical copulation can make the relationship between a man and a woman intimate in an instant. ”
When men and women get along, the interweaving of the flesh is often more able to promote the relationship between the two parties to a deeper level than simple emotional entanglement.
But sometimes, the "sleep and sleep" relationship should not be overestimated.
Especially if the following three signs appear, don't be together.
The demands on the material are much higher than the emotional.
When men and women are together, they should never underestimate money.
Many people who fall in love often see money as a cheesy obstacle, believing that the power of love can transcend material constraints.
However, how many people have lost their good feelings because of the bride price, the house and the car?
Even if you have slept, once you have passed that short period of obsession, you will still return to reality and show your truest side.
is like Xu Huanshan in the TV series "Thirty Only", he chose to return to his family after cheating, not because he had no feelings for Lin Youyou, but because after weighing the pros and cons, he was afraid that he would pay the corresponding price.
There is a saying:
"In this world, there are many ways to test whether feelings are true or not, but talking about money is the simplest and most accurate. How many feelings seem indestructible, but when it comes to money, they immediately fall apart. ”
It can be seen that love is romantic, but life is realistic, and firewood, rice, oil and salt all need material support.
Therefore, a person who only gives you empty promises without actual actions is not worth entrusting for life, and it is okay not to.
is not responsible for you, but holds on to you.
Not long ago, a girl confided in me about her emotional experience.
She once accompanied each other with a boy in an ambiguous time, and the two had a striking similarity in interests, and they always chatted infatuatedly.
In those warm moments, their words were full of sweetness and warmth, and the words "little baby", "I love you", and "I miss you" seemed to be a tacit understanding between them.
Even, they don't mind showing some intimacy between each other.
However, whenever the girls want to further confirm their relationship, the boys always flicker.
The girl was shocked, angry, and at the same time a little confused.
She asked me:"You say, what does he mean by that?Between us, are we in love?”
I couldn't bear to tell her
Even if you've shared an intimate night, if you haven't really confirmed your relationship, then it may just be a game for the guys in their lonely moments.
Scumbags are like this, they like to play ambiguous the most, they don't want to be responsible for you, but they hold on to you.
The more they indulge in their behavior, the more they gain an inch.
So once you detect this sign, be sure to leave decisively and stop losses in time.
Choose to live with you with a guilty mentality
In the movie it says:"Let me teach you to be smart, if you love someone, you have to hurt him first, because guilt is always the best way to maintain love. ”
Noncommittal.
In every relationship, there is a possibility of losing direction and making mistakes.
After making a mistake, we may feel deeply remorseful and even forced to take responsibility for it.
However, how long can such love last?
When the relationship is mixed with betrayal, deception and concealment, no matter how hard you try to repair it, it is difficult to return to the original beauty.
What's even more tragic is that when a person has no love in his heart, but still pretends to spend time with you willingly, this is undoubtedly the biggest irresponsibility for each other.
If you choose to spend your life with you with a guilty mentality, this is by no means true love, and it also indicates that this relationship will not last long.
Once he feels that he has repaid or made up for his mistakes, it is time for him to leave you.
Therefore, when you notice that he has such signs, be vigilant and never be fooled by his sweet words.
True love can only last if it is based on honesty, understanding and mutual support.
There's a good saying:
"If you love, love deeply;If you don't love, leave. ”
In this world, some feelings are reluctantly unattainable, they cannot experience the baptism of the years, and they cannot go to the end of the day in peace.
Even if an intimate evening has been shared, without genuine emotion and unwavering commitment, it will all end up being fleeting.
Therefore, in the face of those partners who only want to satisfy their desires, but cannot walk with you hand in hand for the rest of their lives, please choose to leave bravely and without hesitation.
Only by learning to restrain ourselves in our relationships and restrain our impulses can we meet the person who is truly willing to love wholeheartedly.
Finally, click [watching], let us cherish every day with our true hearts, and find the happiness that truly belongs to us.