"Keep long hair for a few years, cut it in five minutes, and a few years of relationship will end with one turn. ”
This passage, like a cry, pierced the helplessness in my heart.
Feelings are the most difficult thing to be unsatisfactory, and sometimes no matter how hard you try, regrets, disputes and exhaustion are still with you.
When fate leaves quietly, no matter how deep the love is, it can only turn into a helpless letting go.
It's just that when giving up becomes inevitable, men and women show slightly different attitudes.
Men abandon women and refuse to communicate
Some people say:"I've seen the way you love me, so you don't love me anymore, I can tell at a glance. ”
When a man no longer loves you in his heart, he may not say it directly, but his demeanor will definitely reveal it.
The most obvious manifestation is to become extremely indifferent.
Your messages are no longer answered immediately, ** often no one answers, and your care and greetings have become cold and perfunctory, and there is no longer the warmth and enthusiasm of the past.
If you are dissatisfied, he will even accuse you of being sensitive, suspicious, and willful.
Love and not love, that's so obvious.
When we first got together, he was full of interest in any little thing about you, but now, your enthusiasm and initiative have become an interruption in his eyes.
As the saying on the Internet is:
"When love is burned out, all that is left is really indifference, and even the cold breath flowing from the eyes. ”
So, stop justifying his indifference, his attitude is the best proof of this.
Now that love is gone, it is better to say goodbye peacefully and pursue the path of the future.
The woman gives up on the man and her personality changes.
Ma Dong said:"When a person's emotions come to an end, there is silence. ”
I think so!This is the kind of manifestation after a woman is completely disappointed in her relationship.
She used to be a nagger, but now she is reticent;
I used to like to snuggle up to men, but now I choose to keep my distance;
What used to be a lot of swagger and a lot of talk has now been replaced by silence and solitude.
When a woman begins to change her personality, no longer coquettish, no longer vexatious, it can only mean that she is really disappointed.
Mourning is greater than heart death, so he will be silent and quietly turn away.
So men have to understand -
If the woman around you is still willing to have disagreements, disputes, or even quarrels with you, then she still cares about you in her heart.
But once she doesn't want to quarrel anymore and is left with silence, she should worry about whether she has changed her mind.
After all, in the life of firewood, rice, oil and salt, there are quarrels and laughter, which is really sweet.
There are always things that we don't want to happen, but we have to face them calmly;There are always people that we can't lose, but we have to learn to let go.
In the world of feelings, there is a time when fate gathers and fate disperses.
Now that there is an omen, it is better to be calm than to dwell.
As Mr. Yang Jiang said:
"Give others back to others and give yourself back.
Let the flowers become flowers, let the trees become trees, and from then on, the mountains and rivers will never meet again.
May in the next life, not seen, not remembered, and not owed. ”
Finally, light up [look again], may you and I be happy in love, if not, you can also have the best memories, the sky is high and the sea is wide, and we are all well.