You have no shortcomings at all, only features
Again, you are the best version of yourself.
Be firm in yourself and like yourself completely.
First. Pros are disadvantages, and discons can also be pros.
People who praise you for your steadiness actually mean that you are not decisive in your actions.
People who praise you for being able and sharp are actually saying that you are easily impatient.
Look for places and people who are willing to affirm your characteristics.
Many parents and leaders tend to selfishly judge a person's strengths and weaknesses from their own perspective to define others.
But the real masters like to praise others and give encouragement to others.
Second. If there really are pros and cons, you should cherish your own flaws.
Many people are strong because of their shortcomings. You may have heard that many gifted children have some kind of flaw, and when these flaws are a**, their talent is also gone.
Third. If there really are pros and cons, the co-existence of pros and cons is to make you a whole person.
If you only see your good qualities, you will be seen as godlike;
And if you only see your shortcomings alone, you will be seen as a demon and garbage.
Biographical writing is generally done to create an image of an idol, and only to write about one's own merits and legendary experiences.
Fourth. If there are pros and cons, I will never waste time trying to change my disadvantages.
After all, we have limited time in life, and it is not enough to give full play to our strengths, so how can we have time to change those things that do not matter?