Yesterday at three o'clock in the afternoon, I was teaching students at school, and I saw my father call me more than a dozen **, maybe there was something in a hurry.
After class, I hurriedly went back to my father, and my father said in a very anxious tone: "Weihong, you should hurry up and ask for leave to go home, your mother and I were just adding grass to the sheep in the sheepfold, your mother suddenly fainted, maybe her hypoglycemia is committed again, I will pack her things now, you quickly drive back and take your mother to check and check." ”
I panicked, threw the textbook into the office, told the principal, and drove straight to my hometown in a panic.
Fortunately, the county seat is not far from home, and it takes about 20 minutes to drive faster, and when I get home, my mother is dizzy and can't get up in bed, I leaned over to see, my mother's face was pale, sweating, and kept saying that she was so disgusting.
My father was in a hurry and didn't know what to pack for my mother, but when he handed me a handbag, he asked me to take my mother to the hospital quickly.
Before leaving, my mother kept saying to me: "Weihong, I don't think there is a big problem, just rest, don't go, I get motion sickness, besides, I don't know how many days it will take, your father is too busy at home alone, chickens, ducks, pigs and sheep have to be managed." ”
Listening to my mother's words, I was angry, this time I couldn't say anything by her temperament, I said with a straight face: "Mom, can you cherish your body, if you are sick, you don't say that you suffer yourself, I still have to worry about it, you are like this, when will you drag it out?"When it is serious, do you spend a lot of money to see a doctor?”
The mother said disapprovingly: "You kid is talking nonsense, just how serious can low blood sugar be." ”
Seeing that my mother didn't care about her body at all, I instantly got a little angry, frowned and said: "Mom, love others first and love yourself, you don't love yourself, what do you love others, what do you do, how can we live?".”
When my mother saw that I was angry, she slapped me on the back and said with a smile: "That's okay, Mom will go to the doctor with you, don't be angry, I heard Juanjuan say that your mother-in-law has been living in your house recently, and Mom just doesn't want to go and cause trouble for you." ”
I put my arm on my mother's shoulder, smiled innocently and said, "Mom, you can rest assured, go to see a doctor, stay at my house for a few days, and talk to my mother-in-law, and when you are better, I will send you back when you want to come back." ”
Only then did my mother feel relieved.
On the way to the county hospital, just 20 minutes, my mother has been thinking about the house, looking out of the car window, my mother sighed and said: "Since my mother came to this house, your father has never cooked, and your father has to make do with it these days, your father is very careless, I am afraid that the chickens at home will be taken away by the weasel, every time I go out, when I get home, the pigs in the pigsty, the watchdog can lose a circle of ......."”
I glanced at my mother through the rearview mirror, and I couldn't help but feel sad, my mother had been simple and hardworking for most of her life, and she was heartbroken for her children and this family, but she neglected herself.
Mother's life is not easy, I married my father at the age of 19, at that time the family was poor, I always ate the last meal without the next meal, my grandmother is a well-known powerful character, and she is very strict with her mother's family education, and her mother was not less angry at that time.
To provide for our brothers and sisters to go to school, my mother followed my father to farm desperately, and my mother's face was always tanned.
The peasants just rely on the sky to eat, and when the harvest is good, my mother is very happy, grinds the flour, and is sure to steam one or two big white steamed buns for us to eat. If the harvest was bad, Mother would hang her head, frown, and say nothing, and we didn't know what she was thinking.
Later, I couldn't sell much money to grow crops, so my mother worked hard everywhere in a radius of ten miles to earn money, and we had oil there, so my mother went to the oil drilling team to cook for the workers, three meals a day, and one person had to cook for more than ten or twenty people.
My mother also followed the construction team in the village to do small jobs, and she was full of inexhaustible energy, and everyone praised her mother for her ability and better than men.
Later, when the farmland was returned to the forest, the mother followed to dig tree nests and plant saplings, and before dawn, the mother carried a cloth bag and pedaled the dilapidated bicycle at home, with a shovel tied to the back seat of the car, and the cloth bag contained the dry food that the mother brought to herself at noon, usually two steamed buns, a bottle of water, and some pickles at home.
In the steep mountainous area, my mother worked hard, digging faster than others, and planting faster, and at the end of the afternoon, my mother pedaled her bicycle back again, and now my mother's hands were still covered with thick calluses.
After I graduated, I became a teacher in the county, and every time I went home, it was inconvenient to buy a car, and my mother knew about it, and directly gave me a card, saying that there was 100,000 yuan in it, and let me take it to buy a car.
I was instantly moved to tears, and I couldn't imagine how long my mother had spent saving this money.
So I have to take care of my mother now, she has worked hard for most of her life, and she hasn't enjoyed her happiness yet, so she can't afford to miss anything.
When I arrived at the hospital with my mother, after the doctor examined her, I prescribed some medicine to my mother, so that I could go back and rest well, arrange my diet reasonably, and come to the doctor as soon as possible if I felt unwell, so I couldn't be careless.
When I came out of the hospital, I took my mother to my house, and when I opened the door, I saw my mother-in-law and my wife sitting on the sofa watching TV.
The wife was originally very happy, turned around and smiled and said, "Weihong, you are back!."When my wife got up and saw her mother following me, her face changed suddenly, and she said in surprise, "Mom, why are you here?"”
My mother smiled and said, "I have low blood sugar, Wei Hong took me over to the hospital for a check-up, asked me to stay at home for a few days, and then sent me back when I got better." ”
The wife smiled forcefully and said nothing.
The mother walked over to greet her mother-in-law with a smile: "Mother-in-law, I'm here, I haven't seen you for a long time, are you okay?"”
The mother-in-law pursed her lips and smiled and said, "It's good to come, your own son's house, you can come if you want." ”
After saying that, the mother-in-law sat down to watch TV again, and the mother was very embarrassed, and her hands brushed her hair with nowhere to put it.
I settled my mother into a bedroom by the sun, and also put on a clean sheet cover, and my mother-in-law said sourly: "Mother-in-law, are you planning to stay for a long time?"Look at how filial your son is, and settle you all in the bedroom by the sun. ”
The mother-in-law put on a posture of a master.
My mother smiled and said, "In a few days, Weihong will send me back to my mother, I can't live too long, and I can't live without people at home." ”
When I returned to the bedroom, my wife questioned me: "Why didn't you discuss it with me when you picked up your mother and came to the house?"How much did it cost to go to the hospital?”
I didn't give a good face and said, "You picked up your mother, didn't you discuss it with me?"Why can't your mother come and my mother can't?My mother spent 1,000 yuan to see a doctor, what is there to ask, a few days ago I bought skin care products and clothes for your mother, and you asked me why I didn't say 8,000 yuan?”
The wife also quibbled: "Then my mother gave birth to a daughter of mine, and she doesn't live in our house, what's wrong with spending some money?"”
I snorted and said, "Your mother has a few daughters and I have a few cents to do with it, and whoever treats my mother badly, don't blame me for turning my face and not recognizing people." ”
The wife couldn't take care of it, held back the fire in her belly, slammed the door and went out.
My mother came to the house, and in the evening, I took out the meat from the refrigerator and stewed the pork rib soup and fried four dishes.
During the meal, the wife and husband kept their faces dark, and the mother-in-law sneered at his wife and said: "Look at Weihong, it is still eccentric, your mother-in-law came to prepare four dishes and one soup neatly, and I have never seen such a good treatment when I came." ”
The wife pouted and said, "Of course it's different." ”
My mother worked hard all her life, and the next morning, she got up at six o'clock to clean up for us, and mopped the floor brightly.
As a result, his wife slept until eight o'clock, and when she got up, she said angrily: "Mom, can you get up late in the morning, we can't sleep well when you come, and we are arguing to death." ”
The mother scratched her head like a child who had done something wrong, and said, "I'm sorry, Juanjuan, my mother is just idle and bored, and she wants to clean up for you, but I didn't expect to disturb you." ”
Before the mother could finish speaking, the wife turned around and walked to the bedroom, muttering, "Really, I didn't let people sleep early in the morning." ”
Looking at my mother's aggrieved look, I felt very distressed, obviously living in my son's house, and still living under the fence like this.
I was immediately furious, grabbed my wife and asked her to apologize to my mother, but she didn't say a word of sorry and quarreled with me.
The wife pointed at her mother angrily and said, "Give us back the 1,000 yuan you saw for the doctor, and hurry home, it's because of you that Wei Hong dares to talk to me like this." ”
As soon as I heard this, I was angry, and I went up and gave my wife a big mouth, but my wife didn't stand firmly, and almost sat on the ground.
I scolded angrily: "Do you have the ability to say this again, is it still what people say?"”
My mother quickly picked up my wife and punched me in the chest, scolding me for being a fool.
As soon as the mother-in-law heard the movement, she yelled at me when she came out, and said that I should give her an explanation why she hit her daughter.
I angrily reprimanded: "I am a people's teacher, teaching students every day to learn how to be a man and be filial to their parents. I didn't expect my wife to be so virtuous, and I wouldn't apologize to her for anything. ”
The mother cried and said, "Don't make trouble, don't make trouble, I can't go, you live a good life." ”
Saying that, my mother was about to go into the house to pack her luggage, so I grabbed my mother and said, "Mom, you can't go, this is your house, I see who dares to drive you away today." ”
My wife scolded me unreasonably, and she came up and beat me.
I took a vase on the table next to me, slammed it on the ground, and roared: "Your mother spent me 8,000 and I never said anything, my mother spent 1,000 to see a doctor, you still have the face to let my mother pay it back, let your mother leave quickly, leave my house, she is not welcome here in the future." ”
My wife was dumbfounded by me, and my mother-in-law said, "Weihong, you can't drive me away, I'm just this one daughter, and I still expect you to provide for me." ”
I sneered and said, "What you think about now, every time you come to our house, have I ever said a bad word about you?"Treat you like your own mother, but what about you?Is it temperless to bully me?You hurry up and leave, if you don't want to go, you can do it, I will divorce your daughter. ”
For the first time, my mother-in-law saw me lose my temper so much, and she was afraid that I would come to the real thing, so she packed her luggage and left.
After that, my wife stopped a lot, never yelled at me again, and was respectful to my mother.
Therefore, this person still has to have a temper, filial piety to parents is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, if you can't even protect your own parents, what kind of filial piety can you talk about. Treating my mother-in-law, I think I have a clear conscience, but she doesn't know what to do and what to do.
Family, do you think I'm doing the right thing?